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2004-07-21

Name: help me Any advice on how to tackle a husband who is insensitive and inconsiderate?

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Any advice on how to tackle a husband who is insensitive and inconsiderate? LA replied. Why should you act either way? Whether you can do everything yourself or nothing by yourself?

First, I'm sure you can do everything by yourself but why should you, you're married. Do as much as you have to until he realizes he has to participate. Tell him he has to take part in things.

And act as if you can't do anything??? Why appear weaker than you are? I don't want to be seen as weak by anyone, what would that solve? LA replied. What is insensitive about? anu replied. I've got a very insensitive husband too. It took me 5 years to figure out how to takle him. You must stop crying in front of him. Get a job. Whenever he says something mean, just tell him very seriously that you do not like it. Stop being nice to him until he is nice to you(especially in the bedroom).It is hard but try to do all the household work all by yourself and show him that you are capable of doing things. Don't be scared of arguments. Be very strong when you want to tell him what you want. Show him that you are not intimidated by him. Believe me, it is not worth it to be too submissive. The above method helped me. Hope it helps you too. Vinfun replied. Hi there,

If the advice from Juvinile fails then u need to be a little insensitive for some time and show him that you can be independent in life too...maybe he starts feeling insecured then and starts appreciating you more...

all the best juvinile replied. if you want him to be sensitive towards you
1. dont ever make him feel that you can do each and everything on your own.
2. Act like a child before him.
3. Let him feel more responsible about you, not by asking him to do something but by telling him that you are unable to do that (something)
4. Make him feel that he is needed and you cannot live without him.
5. Give him importance and give credits for what he does good

before someone here objects here as why should you change yourself for your insensitive husband as i say. let me tell you that i just want you two to lead a good life and resolve issues rather than blaming each other.

Thanks

2005-03-10

Name: LA
Subject:

questions for all who replied here

Why should you act either way? Whether you can do everything yourself or nothing by yourself?

First, I'm sure you can do everything by yourself but why should you, you're married. Do as much as you have to until he realizes he has to participate. Tell him he has to take part in things.

And act as if you can't do anything??? Why appear weaker than you are? I don't want to be seen as weak by anyone, what would that solve?

2005-03-10

Name: LA
Subject:

question

What is insensitive about?

2004-08-26

Name: anu
Subject:

i've got one

I've got a very insensitive husband too. It took me 5 years to figure out how to takle him. You must stop crying in front of him. Get a job. Whenever he says something mean, just tell him very seriously that you do not like it. Stop being nice to him until he is nice to you(especially in the bedroom).It is hard but try to do all the household work all by yourself and show him that you are capable of doing things. Don't be scared of arguments. Be very strong when you want to tell him what you want. Show him that you are not intimidated by him. Believe me, it is not worth it to be too submissive. The above method helped me. Hope it helps you too.

2004-09-21

Name: niyathi
Subject:

good one

hello,
ur suggestion is really very good. I liked it really. Even i have a similar case my hubby always praises other ladies his collegues with me please can u help me out.

2004-07-24

Name: Vinfun
Subject:

Another formula

Hi there,

If the advice from Juvinile fails then u need to be a little insensitive for some time and show him that you can be independent in life too...maybe he starts feeling insecured then and starts appreciating you more...

all the best

2004-07-22

Name: juvinile
Subject:

if you want him to be sensitive towards you
1. dont ever make him feel that you can do each and everything on your own.
2. Act like a child before him.
3. Let him feel more responsible about you, not by asking him to do something but by telling him that you are unable to do that (something)
4. Make him feel that he is needed and you cannot live without him.
5. Give him importance and give credits for what he does good

before someone here objects here as why should you change yourself for your insensitive husband as i say. let me tell you that i just want you two to lead a good life and resolve issues rather than blaming each other.

Thanks

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