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Due Date Club December 2005:an unexpected twist in my life
2005-09-09
Name: sarita



hi all
yes'day i had undergone sugar test n found that it is 107 in fasting n 207 in pp.so i had gone to my dr. after general diagnosis she told that u better have u/s done as she cant hear the heartbeat.in u/s the heartbneat is found normal at 147 bpm.but it noted SLUGGISH MOVEMENTS OF THE FETAL.then dr advised for doppler n foudn the blood circulation fine.she told this slow movement may b due to the baby's sleep.now the sudden twist is that she advised for a surgery saying that the uterus has expandedn told that she cant even guarantee after the surgery.it went off in 15 minutes in the night n todya mornign she told that everything is fine n referred me to another blood test whose resutls are 97 in fasting n 156 in pp,now she referred to a dietician. suddenly both the doctors r preparing mentally that be PREPARED FOR ANYTHING.they just say that anythign may happen which is not expectd may be ABORTION.this shakes my ground.my mom is weeping near me n my hubby stays in another city, he dropped me here some 3 weks back. he cant be ina postion to visit me.now i cant see anythign otherthan darkness.plzzzzzz for gods sake can anyone explain what';s going with me. can it be normal? am i losign this chance to become a mother.My god!!! i feel like leaving this life.
I luv my hubby a lot
take care of urself
bye......sarita

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2005-09-11
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Anonymous Name: Mihika
Subject:  Hi Sarita,



Hi Sarita,

Don't worry everything will be alright. Just trust god and have some patience. Let us know about further developments.

Bye and take care,
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2005-09-11
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Anonymous Name: shazia
Subject:  Hey Cheer up...



Hey sarita,

dont worry yar everything is going to be ok. Have faith in God. He is THE only one who can help you more than the docs. Don't trust these doc. U know i had gone through a miscarriage before i got pregnant the second time. Pregnant again with 8th months i went for a check up and the doc said she cant get the baby's heart beat. and my baby is underweight and is not in a good condition. Believe my I was all dead that day . my blood pressure went up and i was dying inside cos i wanted this baby more than my own life.
I was in no condition to handle another miscarriage. I got back home and prayed a lot . u wont belive that day it was me and god.The whole day i prayed and dint know what to do. was dead scared to tell my hubby cos i know he would'nt be able to handle it cos we had no strength left for any bad news.

The next day I went to another doc for a second opinion . Belive me the doc said everything is fine , my baby is normal and not underweight and her heartbeat was fine.

U know the doc who said that my baby was not fine had told me that may be i might have a miscarriage again.

but like i said its all in gods hands. I gave birth to a very healthy baby girl and now iam pregnant with a second one. Dont worry yaar. Everything is gonna be ok. HAVE FAITH. GOD IS WITH YOU. WE ARE ALL HIS FAVOURITE CHILDREN. HE WILL NEVER LEAVE US ALONE. HE LOVES TO TEST HIS CHILDREN. HAVE PATIENCE AND don't get urself worried too much as u might hurt the baby. Trust me ur baby is ok. nothing wrong with ur pregnancy.Mark my words u'll give birth to a very healthy baby. and hey pray to god.
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2005-09-09
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Anonymous Name: Meghana
Subject:  cheer up



Hey cheer up sarita & be happy. You being in soo much tension is not going to help.. I know its easy to say.. But pls have faith. & I am sure the docs know whats best for the baby and you. I too am a first time mom so cannot advice anything else. We all will pray for you and your baby.
Take care
Meghana
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2005-09-09
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Anonymous Name: Raji
Subject:  Have faith in God



Dear Sarita,

Please dont worry and have faith in God. As Deepti says, the doctors can hear the heartbeat so surely thats a very good sign. Just be brave and God will surely see you through this. Im sure you will come out of this being a stronger person. All the best and do keep us posted on the developments.

Best Wishes,
Raji
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2005-09-09
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Anonymous Name: Deepti
Subject:  Cheer up..



Hello Sarita,

Dont worry..keep cheerful...
Have faith in GOD. Maybe the kid is just in some awkward position that makes it difficult to move...everything will be alright. The kids heartbeat seems okay.

So dont worry, everything will be alright.

Cheer up,
Deepti.
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2005-09-09
#6
Anonymous Name: Rids
Subject:  DOnt worry



Dear Sarita,

Im a first time mom too and cant really help you with any tips. But im sure it wont be that serious as it sounds. So please dont worry and have faith in GOD. Dont think negative. This may bother your baby. We pray eveything will go fine with you.

Take care
Rids
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2005-09-09
#7
Anonymous Name: suhanya
Subject:  Donn worry



Donn worry dear..as i can't explain u what ua re goign thru..as i'm a first time mom to be..the only thing i can say u is..keep u'r confidence..dont worry...u are in our prayers...

Take care dear
Gud luk
Suhanya
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