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I have been seperated for a year and my duaghter is just 1 and 1/2 year old.My husbnad left me after a week of my daughters birth,and till now he has not come once to see her nor me.
He used to call and tell that if i have to come back to him i should break all my relationship with my family as well i should get a car and 50 lakhs in cash which was not affordable by my parents and everthing was over.
Now as my daughter is growing up i do not know what to tell her about our seperation.
And i am trying to get a good job to help myself,my daughter and my family.
I want suggestion from the most i can get and help me to get a good job.

Mark replied. Hello I am also a single parent for 10 year girl , I am her father living and working in Dubai. you can talk to me.. b coz i am also facing the same problem. rgds
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mark tejmom replied. u r just 25. u r so young. u can do wonders at this age. do u know among doctors who are 38 or 40 do their pg courses.they have to attend classes everyday. their pay will be only 5000. and the work is too much. but still they do it. when they can do it, you who are just 25 can also do it. iam v.sure, you will be successful if u try. then u can get a job of higher salary. u will have no time to worry about your hubby. isnt that great. come on cheer up. positive replied.
dear jinitha,

come on, you are still quite young. and remember that your daughter is also too young. when she grows up and learns that her mother is not even a graduate, wont she feel ashamed. jinitha, you have to do a lot of things now, for yourself and your daughter-be a role model, morally, ethically, socially, someone she can look up to and may be copy!! DO YOUR GRADUATION. as for the job, dont worry, markets have opend up, 28 is not too late. remember that when your daughter starts going to school you will NEVER be able to finish graduation, as you will need more time to teach her. where are you based? i am on the same boat and know well how it feels. you need a heart of steel now.
best wishes
positive positive replied. dear jinitha,
your probabilities of getting a good job depend upon your own qualifications and the city you are in. have courage and move on, first get a job, then may be an independent accomodation, and then a divorce. remember that an irresponsible man is more a liability than an asset. i know its easier said than done but still you have to try.
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