Thank you so much for your prompt reply Hetal, so kind of you to help those in needs. I really appreciate your effort to help all mothers.

I have started weaning my child. But Hetal, I am still in two mind whether to leave my child or no.

Actually my hubby is in Shj, i managed to get tranfered & moving there but then If I take my son with me I will have to search for a day care. DO youknow any reliable day care in Sharjah.

Guide me on this as well.
Thank you once again.
Hetal replied. welcome n thnks for apprciatn,,i thank everyone for thr trust in me..

as to wat i see right now,,your baby needs you more than he needs neone,doesnt matter even if you wean him.he will be before your eyes and you will be able to sleep at rest ! unless otherwise you have expernced people at home like elders or so to take care of your baby and as to how you feel comfortable in leaving your baby with them.or you can ask them to come with you,,they can stay back home at your new place(with you and your huby) or you might want to look for a daycare...however, if the project or assigmnt is just of a month or so,,you can make a visit and come back,,leaving your baby behind with your elders or caregivers..because then you have to also think about baby age and health,,change in atmosphere and such details..we can run but our babies cant run with us all the time in all types of weather,,,so now its upto you..i m not much aware of weather and health conditions at your place but if i were you i would like to consider that as imp details as down the line, if baby gets in the loop of climate and temprature changes,,recovery will be difficult and you wont be at peace of mind working there with a sick baby ! instead things will be exactly opposite,,,so you decide what is your priority and whther or not your baby will be able to cope with your move to diff place dpneding on how good he adapts surroundngs. esp if the transfer or the move is just a month or so....
so,,you are the mother,,you know your baby better thn i know,,judge accrdngly..

its your personal decision..right now you can go the place where you are gettng transferrd,,once you reach there,,see how the things are and how near/far,good/bad the amenities/facilties,availblty of your baby stuffs and about medical facilities,,..ask your colleagues and thr wives and other local moms in your office or the place where you will be residing..they will be of much help to you thn i will be...
and thn if you think everything is in a way that you can manage with your working hours or so,,you can go for daycare and let your baby stay with you,,or else if the things are not as per your expectation,,its practical enough to leave your baby behind to your caregivers instead of taking a chance in new surrnding or new neghbourhood.

search on your local indian sites or local..google dot local might help you with that,,not sure about the quality of informatn..also many offices and universities these days have full time day cares so you might want to look around these areas and as to how good they are...look for someone certified or licensd.,,

since m in US,i will not be of much help to you as far as finding a good local daycare is concerned,,but i sincerely hope you find a good one around your office area...

a very good luck to you,,take care ! Hetal replied. welcome n thnks for apprciatn,,i thank everyone for thr trust in me..

as to wat i see right now,,your baby needs you more than he needs neone,doesnt matter even if you wean him.he will be before your eyes and you will be able to sleep at rest ! unless otherwise you have expernced people at home like elders or so to take care of your baby and as to how you feel comfortable in leaving your baby with them.or you can ask them to come with you,,they can stay back home at your new place(with you and your huby) or you might want to look for a daycare...however, if the project or assigmnt is just of a month or so,,you can make a visit and come back,,leaving your baby behind with your elders or caregivers..because then you have to also think about baby age and health,,change in atmosphere and such details..we can run but our babies cant run with us all the time in all types of weather,,,so now its upto you..i m not much aware of weather and health conditions at your place but if i were you i would like to consider that as imp details as down the line, if baby gets in the loop of climate and temprature changes,,recovery will be difficult and you wont be at peace of mind working there with a sick baby ! instead things will be exactly opposite,,,so you decide what is your priority and whther or not your baby will be able to cope with your move to diff place dpneding on how good he adapts surroundngs. esp if the transfer or the move is just a month or so....
so,,you are the mother,,you know your baby better thn i know,,judge accrdngly..

its your personal decision..right now you can go the place where you are gettng transferrd,,once you reach there,,see how the things are and how near/far,good/bad the amenities/facilties,availblty of your baby stuffs and about medical facilities,,..ask your colleagues and thr wives and other local moms in your office or the place where you will be residing..they will be of much help to you thn i will be...

search on your local indian sites or local..google dot local might help you with that,,not sure about the quality of informatn..also many offices and universities these days have full time day cares so you might want to look around these areas and as to how good they are...look for someone certified or licensd.,,

since m in US,i will not be of much help to you as far as finding a good local daycare is concerned,,but i sincerely hope you find a good one around your office area...

a very good luck to you,,take care !