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hi
my mil doesn't help with my 2.4yrs old kid.even when i give her a plate to feed my daughter she'll say\";yeh to merre paas aati hi nahin hai\";and infront of my hubby and fil ,she'll say ki bahu to apni beti ko mere paas chodti hi nahin hai..now my girl's going to playschool for 3 hrs.still when she comes back they'll keep on saying\";yeh to bahut chipku hai apni mom ko chodti hi nahin hai\";and go off to sleep.in front of other relatives they'll say that we are ready to take care of our granddaughter,so that i can get back to my job.but nothing like that seems to happen.i'm in the middle of my mphil.but im not getting any support from anyone .my hubby too is mamma pappa boy.fil wants me to do all works like a secretary if he wants to make a call he'll call me and ask me to dial the no.they'll always disturb me by asking all stupid things and making idle chat .ive got only three hrs in which i can concentrate on my studies but thanx to them they either start fighting or one way or the other they'll not consider my studies.i feel like killing myselfpls tell me how to survive dj replied. the 3 hrs u r looking forward to study is the 3 hrs u'r daughter is in playschool right. Along with u'r daughter u also get out of home ...go to the nearest library and sit there and study. Make u'r stand clear and stand firm. In laws never change dear. For us to move on and live we need to make stern and sometimes painful decisions no matter what comes on the way. Hoe things workout for you.