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2009-05-17
Name: swaram



Hi,

I have seen in many forums that most of them are seeking for baby girl. Does any one observed this? Why does people want baby girl than baby boy?
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2009-05-23
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Anonymous Name: Mel
Subject:  Hi Swaram



I think there are a few reasons for this. I' m not saying that I subscribe to these reasons, but this is what I have heard from people who have adopted girls.

One: People think that a boy can still make a life for himself, but an orphan girl has less chances. So, if they want to give a chance to an orphan child, then a girl will have a greater chance of a better lilfe if she gets a family.

Second, they figure that if the child is to be told that he/she is adopted, or if the child finds out, it would be easier to handle a girl than a boy.
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2009-05-17
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Anonymous Name: Monica
Subject:  Hi



Hi Swaram,

Yes, Nowdays people r adopting more gals compare to Boys. But this is not the complate Fact, people who r well educated and Young Couples wants to adopt the gal. But if you see the overall percentage, families from Rular background still wants to adopt a boy only, they r waiting for boys from so long. I personally beleive Gals r more Affectionate and caring and Lovable as compare to boys, Even i have adopted a Baby gal. Also if you analyse the records 90% of abandonded infants r Baby gals only, it is so unfortunate that Many parts of the our country, there r people who still kill thier baby gals immediate after thier birth.

Regards,

Monica
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2009-05-22
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Anonymous Name: Jyoti Swaroop
Subject:  reason for prefernce for a male child.



Mam, It´ s a misconception that people from rural background alone prefer to male child over a female child. These are socio-economic conditions which can be held responssible for this age old Indian mind set. Here in India sons-in-law/ in-laws mistake their brides for their personal fiefs. Parents lose every right on their daughters after getting them married. They become aliens in the very house where they have spent prime years of their life. They can´ t serve their parents in their old age and I have noticed in some households brides still have to seek permission from their in-laws to visit their parents.That´ s y only even highly educated people prefer to male child.
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