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Name: Pearl

Hello friends i need some advice on my Married Life , mine is a very big story but i will brief out a few lines for u guys to understand the problem , i got married to a 36 year old Man when i was 20 ! but then we stayed together for 8 Months and since he was Jobless living in a big Joint family i had to undergo Immense torture by all my co-sisters since my man was Jobless ,so i left the country and went to London , thinking i can get my hubby out of India but then he was stuck in India as his visa got refused ever since that he dint pUt any effort to get a new Job and i waited begging him to get a Job for 3 years in UK so that i can go back to India and have a Life with him , but to no avail and i moved to USA and now its been 2 years in usa and iam still trying to get him to USA , and we have been living separately for a total of 5 Years now all my Beautifull youth from 20 -23 has Passed away ! He is very much obssessed to go to USA ! Now adays strange fear Gripped me he is now 40 years old and iam still 23 , will he be able to keep me satisfied in all areas of life , iam confused as in another 10 yrs he will be an old man and me still young ! he got a Job now when he is 40 and i started working when i was 20 i mean he wasted all his Youth now if i go back for him to India we will struggle in India cos he has Just started working no home nothing we are standing on ground 0 , i'm scared and confused as what will happen to my Life later if he is not keeping me Happy now and not able to satisfy me now .... this all is scaring me like Hell what he wants from me ? Is he using me to get him out of country ....Although he says that he loves me very much and he misses me and he wants me iam confused he Praises me all the time ..Please anyone who has an answer to my fears please feel free to post an answer !
Thanks
Pearl

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