like every1 else i never thought that i will shift from due date club to this forum god forbid if any1 has to cum here to share the sufferings ,but then wots life without some setbacks??
well after 9years of ttc i conceived than due to oligohydraminos (less water) around the baby i had to terminate my 5 mnth old precious pregnancy.while surfing i came on to this forum read abt others n felt how similar sentiments run in our minds ,we r thinking in same lines ,hoping to have next pregnancy soon ...etc.etc. despite having different identities ,ur mind n heart say the veri same things ,thats d work of god.
i read abt some1 who lost 1 child but in return god gave her twins ,i just wanna say that there is nothing new under the sun when we say
' y me \" that time we dont know abt others ,our pictures have been made already the prints lie wid the almighty he knows our story when n how n wot wil hapen? so i am waiting for the other half of my film which i m sure going to be wid happy ending.n wish d same for all of u .
i have 1 ques. i ahvent seen my doc.after termination n i m also not using any contraceptive have u guys advised to use protection till 3 mnths n then start ttc??kindly tell....

Ramya V replied. Hidear,
You are true When we go thru such a heart pain we feel Y me but the facts are we arent the only ones. As u said god has decided things for us. God does things always for our wellbeing. This thought would always help us overcome our sadness. We human tend to thank god for what ever good things he does to us and then go n blame him when anything goes against our wishes.

Anyway coming to the point. Even i have lost my precious gift after exactly 5 months but the reason for me to terminate it was due to abnormal baby and doctor adviced me to terminate the pregnancy if i dont want the baby to suffer once she was born. I have got my preiods after 1 1/2 months . Doctor had adviced me to try for next baby only after 5-6 months, though i wish it was lesser period i would rather wait as per her advice.
You must seek your doctor' s advice becoz it differs from person to person.
My best wishes

Ramya K.Radha replied. Hi There,

Your story was a sad one, 9 years of ttc followed by heart ache! I am incredibly sorry to hear of your loss however it seems you are thinking of trying again and that in itself is quite hopeful. One does need to wait a little while to allow the body some time to restore itself but yes you can try again after three months if you wish. Might I just suggest that you ask your doctor to refer you on to a fertility specialist. 9 years of ttc is far from normal and gievn your loss I imagine you' d like to conceive as soon as possible. Do see help from a good doctor who can assist you with this issue. I sincerely wish you all the best for a happy, healthy and hopefully soon conceived pregnancy.

Kate