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Miscarriage and Child Loss:Please advise ,had a miscarriage.
2008-05-13
Name: ss



Hi,
Iam 33 yr old.Have a daughter of 4 yrs.I got miscarried last week which has come to 9 weeks.It started off with bleeding.When we went to ultrasound dr said baby is no longer alive to my shock.It was a devastating experience.
I have gone through d n c.
When pregnancy was confirmed i have gone to gp.He has done some blood tests.My progestrone levels were a bit low.Then I used pessaries (in 7th week).And also my BP rises when ever i visit GP.Orelse it is fine.
In my ultrasound my babys growth was only for 61/2 weeks.My first visit to gp was in 7th week.

What iam interested in knowing is
1.Can progestrone levels be determined before pregnancy.
2.What are the effective methods in imprving levels.
3.Does BP played a bad role in my preganancy
4.I have read few comments a new pregnancy can confirmed very fast after undergoing DNC.How far is this true.
5.If yes,in my case where progestrone levels are low ,if the progestrone levels are low again whats the point in taking risk .Or progestrone levels can be normal again.
6.Shoould i give some time try for second pregnancy to get back my health into good shape for concieving

Please please advise,desperatly looking for answers.I dont have enough friends who can help me.





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2008-05-19
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Anonymous Name: logic
Subject:  hi ss



looks to me you dont the basics about menstruation cycles.
Progesterone and estrogen levels are always rising and getting reduced throught the menstrual cycle, thats why its called mentstrual cycle!
So there is no use of determining progesterone before pregnancy, it should be done after pregnancy, good progesterone levels means good pregnancy.
Your doctor will give you progesterone supplements if your progesterone is low.
You should understand what BP actually means, only then you will realise how BP affects everything.
Very Very high BP can mean different complications, in which case a fetus cannot be carried to term.
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2008-05-14
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Anonymous Name: Anamika
Subject:  Miscarriage and Child Loss



I had similar experience and I miscarried when I was 30 at my second pregnancy. We waited for 6 months as per doctor' s suggestion before trying again and I am in family way again. You may check with your doctor to see if you can try after 3 months as you are 33 already and I am sure you would be much more anxious to try again.
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