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I read all you replies and now I feel I was not alone in that situation. I feel both a winner and loser.Making this decision was only possible with my parents support and the day I was separated with my hubby there was huge fight between Mil his sister and my Dad and there was also physical fight.My dad was so mad at him that he pulled my hubby's collar.My dad also told them that if they want me back they have to come at my place or forget me at all.
It's been a week now and I am India and he is in US with his sisters and his mother.Should I lose all hope from him and start a new life or wait for his decision.
I'll always have a soft corner for my husband and want a second chance in my marriage but it is only possible if he comes back to me.
mani.




me-me replied. Hi There,

You've been though a lot. And if you want your husband back you can not just sit with your hands folded neatly in your lap and wait. Speak with him before you allow too great of an emotional distance between you both and do irreparable damage to the relationship you're hoping to salvage.

Indeed you are lucky to have the support of your family but yes, if you want to keep your marriage take action. I iwsh you all the best Swati replied. Lucky u! Atleast your family is supportive. Thats one big positive point. Go back to him if he gets u but make him agree to some of your conditions b4 u go back whether its abt your MIL/SIL etc. Now they know they cant mess around with u too much. They cant treat u like a doormat and take advantage of u cos u r in the US. Dharma replied. Dear Mani,

I am very sorry to hear that. But if things turned out differently than you expected, maybe it is for the best. If this is any solace, I have dealt with severe disappointments inlife too, and afterwards, it seems like whatever happened was for the best. The universe has a weird way of balancing things.

In the meanwhile, please try to become emotionally stronger. If your guy comes back for you, I have one peice of advice, NEVER EVER leave your own house again. Except for abuse, where you can call the cops.But it is YOUR HOUSE, not your inlaws or your parents , YOURS AND YOUR HUBBY'S. Please be strong dear.

aditi replied. hi mani
itwas very sad to hear that.....but if he turns backto u u shouldgive him second chance ....have faith in god...
well all the best for anythg u do and hope u get everythg u want....
all the very best...
aditi