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Joint Family:can anyone help me?
2005-06-14
Name: please help



I am a married woman since two years and have a baby. I had lost my father at a very early age and being emotional by nature, that incident made me hyper sensitive n short tempered. After marriage, I could feel much better because of my loving husband and good in-laws. But sometimes things dont go according to my wish and that makes me very upset. My m-i-l is otherwise a good person but a bit dominating and wants to know everything about us. Dont you think everybody deserves some privacy...some personal space? I dont want to sound complaining but would just like to know what should I do to unwind when I am upset. I am a very reserved kind of a person so I dont have many friends and also my child keeps me busy to go out somewhere. Could any body suggest some good things for me? Thanks a lot.
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2005-06-23
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Anonymous Name: kulu
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dear, It is really a very little and U yourself has made it. U will have to just one thing. If your MIL ask u about what U don't want to tell. Don't avoid and tell but tell her very very briefly and little of it. slowly she will understand that U don't want to share everything. sometimes use words like-nahi, kuch nahi, It is nothing like that. Moreover try to avoid the situations and be busy will your child and books etc. go to park nearby with your child. You need a change.
all the best
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