Relationships  Discussion Forum

hi everyone
do u think children should go for studies in India as everyone says that bringing up kids are challenge in European countries.my ils are in India? do u think putting in Indian hostel will make more good student rather than studying in Canadian schools.my hb keep telling me all the time that we should send our kids in India either to his paresnts(which i don't agree,as they are not well and can't look after my baby properly) or put in hostel. as around us and in our relatives everyone's kids are spoiled and we don't want to be our kids like that.so what u think in that?what is the best way?money is not our problem but we want our baby to be in best school.whether in India or in Canada. do u think my sacrifice is going to pay or without mother father a baby can't learn things properly? i need ur suggestions and experiences.
thanks

suman replied. hi mdh,
i think the baby can develop into better human being with mother and father.in india also kids without proper supervision dont grow up well and do all kinds of things. the child will grow up and blame parents.tell your husband that it is HIS child and YOURS too and urs is a mothers heart. how would he feel if he would have grown up without his parents. would he blame his mom and dad. would he miss the love and care? PRIYA replied. hey mdh, I dont think its a wise decision.
I believe that if you concentrate on their studies, spend extra time with them, enroll them in extra curicular activities that they enjoy etc they can get the best of both worlds and turn out to be much smarter.
Dont get scared seeing other peoples spoilt kids, learn from their parents mistakes and do the best you can for your kids. The bond a child builds with their parents in young age is there to stay. All teens are naughty so dont get scared of it.
Aparna replied. You didn't mention how old your children are, but I feel distressed just thinking about sending your children far away to be in a hostel. What are your priorities - is it more important to you that they are \";good students\"; (which I think they can be anywhere) or that they feel loved by their parents and have their parents close? Is it more important for you two to be in Canada, or to be with your children?

Please rethink your options, but this time think about your childrens' emotional development as well as academic.