Name: ur friend
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Date: 2005-06-08
Name: friend
Subject: Reema, this message is for you.......
hey reema,
i agree with \";another friend\"; u should think before writting such thing.
People come at this forum for seeking help. If you can't help THEMS IS FINE BUT DON'T INCREASE THEIR TENSIONS IN LIFE.
U MAY BE AT BEENO'S PLACE TO EVERYONE SEEKS HELP AND GUIDANCE AT TIMES OF WEAKNESS ONE WAY OR THE OTHER.
SO PLS DON'T INCREASE HER TENSIONS.
I AGREE THAT SHE SHOULD LEAVE HER HUSBAND AND INSTEAD WORK ON HIM FOR A BETTER LIFE.
Reema, in future pls mind ur case before writting such threats to anyone. if u come to know someone don't try to take advantage of dat.
god is watching everyone. BEENO U AND ME EVERYONE SO BE THERE AS A HELPING HAND MY FRIEND...GOOD LUCK
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Date: 2005-06-08
Name: Another friend
Subject: Regarding Beenu's story
Hey Reema,
What a devilish mind u have? How cheap of you to threaten beenu that thru your friend you will get beenu's husband to know all this and then he will leave her instead of her leaving you. I think its really shameful on your part to think of such things.
That girl beenu shared with all what she is going thru - so people could guide her the correct way. She was only honestly speaking her mind out. I think our duty as fellow messge board community is to guide her correctly and not further her problems. Do u think you will be doing her any good - by facilitating her hubby to leave her. What will u get out of it? Nothing...only an innocent girl's house will be devastated.
You can counsel her, you can guide her and tell her to do what u think is correct in your view....not curse her and think of punishing her.
Do u think u are God that u have to punish her for what u think is right or wrong.
While i am in no way supporting her but it might be that she is just confused and not able to see what is good for her. So our duty is to guide her than thinkign of ways of destroying her home. I think what friend and rr have written to her, makes sense and i welcome everyone who want to come forward to do so and tell her politely that by working on her husband who is so loving - she will be in a better situation than leaving him.