hi to all
I m Rosemina Vastani from pakistan... and 26 yeras old his is my second pregnancy ... my daughter Noorain willbe two years old on 14 july mashallah
i was very active participant of july2003 club and i hope this website support me as it did before

i havn't plan for that Baby cos i think i was not ready for the second baby yet but Grace of GOD this happened and my hubby and me decided to count

i m little bit confused cs now again i m going through all bad feeling like morning sickness and this all things makes me sooo iritated
Noorain is right on her place and her demand is ofcourse same as b4 but now i think sometimes i m mad on her and then i reallly feel guilty afterwards
pls sugest me how could i make balance with my situtaion and not hurt my daughter feelings too

waiting for your reply
Love and GOD Bless u All
Rosemina Vastani Shweta replied. Hey Rose....

I cant even think what I wud do in your position.. I am a first timer...But I am sure things will work out for you... and I am sure since Noorain is just 2 years old once the baby comes she will be so excited abt it tht she wont remember any of this and niether will you.. Blame it on the hormones.. Its not your fault....
Cheers
Shweta Cha replied. Hi Rose,

I too have these same feelings. It because of the hormone surge. When I get these feelings towards my son, I have to take a breather and relax. Sometimes I even have to go in my room and close the door for a couple of minutes to regain my composure. Make sure you get lots of sleep and eat well, as this may add to your feelings. Dealing with a 2 year old is not easy, as my son was born in April of 2003. However, just try to be as calm as possible and keep in mind that a 2 year old is always learning, and doesn't know exactly what good behaviour is yet.

Good luck!

Cha!