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2007-09-29

Name: siya hi ,

my husband had forwarded a good SMS and i would like to share it with all of u .. as u people have been my pillars of support......

\" WHEN GOD SOLVES YOUR PROBLEM , U ALWAYS HAVE FAITH IN HIS ABILITIES. AND WHEN HE DOESNT SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM , HE HAS FAITH IN YOUR ABILITIES !

have a nice day.
love u
siya

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2007-10-06

Name: siya
Subject:

hi sudha

hi sudha,
its nice to see that u r keping yourself busy....i got my periods on 5th its really disgusting...i really hate it..
sudha i live with my in-laws and they would never allow me to go for job...i have done my MBA from SIMS Pune ....nor they allow me to take tutions at home which i was taking earlier ( in Kolhapur - where my husband was posted for four years)
now after completing my house work i get free by 11....i have nothing to do...what to do now everytime i cannot move out to meet my parents ...other relatives ...this is the only thing that remain in my mind...that is HOW CAN I CONCEIVE AGAIN AT EARLIEsT....
i cannot talk about it to anyone as they all are disturbed about paras loss
...nobody wants to talk about it ...at times i loose faith in god what to do????????????

2007-10-07

Name: sudha
Subject:

hi siya

i can really understand ur situation though i have never gone through such suppression in my life my parents and my inlaws are v open minded people , yes its true in india a loss in this way is never talked abt same with me , Rishonas b day is nearing (4th nov) and my neices b day is also nearing (8th dec) everybody is so excited abt her b day as she turns 3 now but nobody talks abt Rishonas b day ..i want to have a small gathering may b or a bit of prayer ..but it seems nobody will agree everybody is too scared to show their emotions
well i might sound wierd siya but get engaged in some way or else u will get obsessed ...and beleive me ...the more stressd u r the more time u will take time to conceive and its a cyclic process ...and will never end ...join some hobby class, go to some neighbours house, do some xtra wrk like make in pickles,do a bit of pot gardening, do some fabric painting , if ur good at embroidary do some of it .... but come of it ...
i tell u again siya come out of this obsession other wise things will go difficult for u more...
pls pardon me if i sounded rude or wierd
but most of all take care
love
sudha

2007-10-06

Name: sudha
Subject:

hi siya

long time didnt hera from you ???? busy??? my new work is keeping me hell busy ..so much of correction , question paper setting, other school work uuuf.. it gets me so tierd at the end of the day ..and to top all net was done last 4 days
just b a liitle patient its just 2 mnths ur into TTC ...if u get too stressed or wrked up it will complicate matters more so relaxx everything will happen in its own time..
so what happend on 4th did u get ur periods????
most of all b positive and have faith
love
sudha

2007-10-02

Name: Anubhooti
Subject:

Hi Siya,
I pray for you and wish U all the very best for the positive result,U r waiting for.
Love
Anubhooti

2007-09-30

Name: abcd
Subject:

hi siya...

thats a good one.thanks for sending it.i hope u r doing fine now..tk care

2007-10-02

Name: siya
Subject:

hi abcd

i am doning fine ..keping my fingers crossed as my periods will be due by 4 th of this month...hope i dont get to see them any more... this is my second month of TTC......what s on your end

take care siya

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