Not Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi everyone..

i got 2 c-section at 1 year gap and already have 5 years old daughter and 4 years old son. I was on Depo provera meanwhile n becoz of some medical problems i needed to switch over from depo to other contraceptive .Now i came to know that i am 5 week pregnant. I am financially well off and home maker . But confused , shd i carry my pregnancy ?
Why i dont want :,i dont have any back up at home to take care of kids. I dont rely on maids n servants when it comes to kids. N now day by days my other 2 kids's requirements r increasing .Their studies, their other hobbies, their outings, function's preparartion at school ..They need my full attention . If i plan to have third baby , i am sure, my other 2 kids will suffer.
So logically i shd not have third baby but emomtionally i wanna have now as i have already conceived n its my own baby.Husband is not very willing but he is also confused. He is saying that we will have third baby but only after once our kids become more independent and also saying that now we both also need a break as kids r little bit old n kids can enjoy with us .
Experienced people with kids suggest please.... To which extent married life and older siblings gets affected after new arrival in family.??? roopa replied. Dont worry and go ahead with ur pregnancy with the new arrival therre will already a gap of 5-6 years between the older kids ,so if u still delay thing may not turn ver pleasing.since ur well off u can carry on with this.
also i kids will learn to be more independent so dont worry so much
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