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i've a baby 3 yrs old. my hubby and mil want to have another kid and i m happy with 1 kid as i can't take the economic financial responsibilty of the child and am also afraid of complications in pregnancy and delivery. how should i make my husband convince that i do not want 2nd child at all. i tried to tell him but he's somehow trying to convince me and he has stopped using contraceptuve. pl advise soon. mona replied. hi ,

i have the same problem but somehow i havebeen able to convince my husband till now ,
if i were in ur situation i wud have started using pills .

take care and don't go against ur mind its too dangerous for ur future child if in any case u concieve ...accept it and think positive.

i had too much complicated delivery ..
and the deadly aftermath ...the sick behaviour of the in laws !!
well the time has opened my eyesnow and in any case i won't be readyfor another child .

why bring the other innocent in this world when we ourselves are trying to stuggle with our lives !!

so whatever

this is it

becareful

and be happy . mona replied. hi S replied. Dear 's',

If ur huby had stoped taking conta., u start taking them, y 2 depend upon him?. Try using ur brains, 1s he wants 2nd child he will not co-operate, so till u can't convince him, or if u can't convince him, go for conta. pills, those are the easiest and best way for women, ready available in the market. If u r not prepared mentally and or physically then never go for a baby, coz, then u can never take proper care of it, as the sight of it will make u feel tourtured and helpless, within ur-self.

Try to sit and have a talk with ur hubby, and make him see reasons, but if u fail in convincing, then stick stricktly to pills.

Best of luck. vs replied. Well since this is a personal decision to be taken by your family, talk to them and tell them about your concerns and hear theirs with a open mind. I am sure your husband must also be aware of the financial situation. I have two kids and inspite of the double costs I incur everywhere, I would have wanted nothing else but if you think you are physically and mentally not ready for it, tell your family that you will consider it in a year or two.