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My daughter is 13 years old and we have always shared a good and close relationship, almost as two sisters and I have always respected her maturity of thought.
of late, I am seeing a change in her bahaviour and I think ( I have a doubt ) that she is indulging in self stimulation a lot. She spends a lot of time privately and it has been worrying me. She is otherwise healthy and not depressed, but she has reduced conversations. I have not given her a mobile so I know she is not talking to someome. However, she does chat on websites etc. I am scared and apprehensive to bring the subject up but I also dont want to just sit and watch. Please anyone share tips or advice ? Dimple replied. Hi Zarine, you can take your daughter to a concealer who will talk to her and get details from her about the kind of trouble she is going through internally. I think she is hiding something. Hardika replied. Your daughter has just entered her teens and she is growing both physically and mentally and i think you should give her the space she needs but also don't just leave her on her own. Think of a way you can do both the things. NN replied. As a parent i understand your worry but you shouldn't be as she is 13 and now is she growing and maturing in all the ways and its natural and nothing to be worried about. You can talk to her about this after some time. NN replied. She is just growing up and what doubts you are having are also natural as a parent but i think instead of thinking about it too much you should give her some space and time. If you feel very weird then talk to her. NN replied. See if you think you are your daughter share a close relation then you should not hold back thinking about it and just talk to her about it. You can ask her casually about everything but don't let the conversation get awkward. Kaira replied. Hello Ajmal,
So you are worrying about your child yes it would be hard for you only because when you see sudden changes in your kid you have to think about that and you must sort out the problem with some solution only then you will be free from tension. None replied. Hello Zarine,
After your post has been read it is very clear that she is hiding some thing from you but you need to ind it from her in your own style only when it is shared only then she would be happy and even you will be tension free. Basu replied. Hello Zarine Ajmal,
You need to discuss with your daughter that what made her to behave like this.Because if it is not shared she will suffer a lot.You just find out with some kind way and as she is free she would share you so easily with you. No Name replied. Hello Zarine Ajmal,
It is the best you must make her understand and what does making her to behave in such way.Because she is in teens and you need to take of her so that it would not be any problem for you only in future. sneha replied. if u share friendly relation then surely u should talk to her. she will understand u as u nly said that she is mature enough then she will understand seema replied. dont worry, this is common in this age group. no matter how good your relation with your daughter is, she would definitely need her space in this age. However, if you try to act in this way, the distance would increase as she would think that her mom is against her talking to her friends. She would not at all like this. So give her her space in life riddhi replied. aunty its common that girl make some room wih her parents at this age even i am also frank with my mumma we both r like sis and we share everything btween us i make little room from my mumma for some time to b with my friends

aunty we had teen naukar(servant) in our home even we discuss she caught him staring at me and she ytold me to stay away and sit properly in front of him but aunty i feel little shy in front of her as am growing so i make some distance she taunt me abt my looks my friends and my dressing sense