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Its been close to 1 year since i got married. My spouse was working and put a long leave and joined me who is working abroad. We are happy going couple and do not have any issues.

But I do have a weakness..i get very very angry for some silly things like... if anyone wastes food,is not punctual etc.,
Sonal replied. Hi Saran, try to do meditation or keep yourself calm when you get angry within a period of time you will start controlling your anger and start adjusting to all kind of problems and situations. Pooja replied. Hi Saran, do not worry you will adjust with things within a period of time. Anger is one thing which will not leave you soon but if you try from your side you will surely put a full stop to this anger. Arpita replied. Hi saran, do not worry this is one common thing which we all go through. even i dont like if anyone waste food or is not on time. You will get adjusted to things with time so dont worry. NN replied. Maybe you were angry before because you were upset about the fact the your husband is not with you and you don't see him for long times and now that he is with you maybe your anger issues will get resolved too. No Name replied. You can opt for anger management classes as they are quite common now and have be proven to help a lot of people get a control on their anger issues. Or you can also meditate as it is quite relaxing too. NN replied. Doing yoga has helped a lot of people to overcome their anger and meditation too. Yoga and meditation reduces the stress level and brings your mind peace and it is very important to be calm and not get angry on small things. NN replied. There is nothing wrong in getting angry for or on things but if you think you want to control your anger then you can easily. Whenever something stupid happens on which you might get mad then just try to ignore it. Myntra replied. Hi Saran,
You need to get control in your life because you have to resolve your own issue so that you can go for any solution so that there will not be any problem and you can control by doing yoga etc. Miko replied. Hello saran,
We need to change our behavior or nature according to the situations and to the people also.So you also explain your emotions and thoughts to your wife and that too in smooth manner so that she can understand what about you are want to say. Nimmy replied. Hello saran,
The things which you have posted are very silly but your intention is good but that is not way of exhibiting to the people.You need to choose some good way for exhibiting. So try in some other methods which you can make the people understand about that. No Name replied. Hello Saran,
It is the common issue faced by all people. Because now a days every one are getting irritated for every small issues.But it must be understand by your family members. So but you need to understand that no one will bear you need to control your emotions. angel replied. what is your age? it can be due to hormonal changes. earlier you were like that or you notice sudden change in behavior? have you started fighting with your husband? treat yourself with doctor Same old replied. Hello, it is so good that you feel what you do is not right. Everyone has a way of living life. When we love them we have to accept them as a whole. When you're not upset tell your wife how much such things bother you and you lose your cool. she will understand and try to change. anger will not help. Shelly replied. Hi Saran,

This is not your weakness. These are the good qualities.

I also hate people who break rules, misbehave, tell lies, who are not punctual and disciplined, have bad habits, are dishonest. But I have observed that today there is no value of people who are honest and punctual. World has turned upside down and there is corruption everywhere. Nobody respects values and morals. So it is better to ignore such people and be what you are. Enjoy your life. Do not pay attention to such things if they are not harming you in anyway. Just be what you are. You cannot do anything becoz people wont listen to you and do whatever they want. So the best thing is to follow your own principles and let people do what they want. After all god is watching all or us and he will surely give reward for being honest and patient and people who lie and cheat surely deserve punishment from god.