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Name: Veena

My sister and BIL were staying separately for the past 4 years because my sister didnot like a joint family and he was not ready to leave his parents. They are married for 9 years now and have an 8 year old son who is now living with my parents along with my sister. My BIL is a small time doctor but used to a very comfortable life style and so he was not ready for a separate family with my sister though he loves her a lot. My siter is a big manager in an MNC and earns much more than him.

Now the son is crying for dad so my BIL came and has been staying here for the past 2 months. My sister again n again asking him to come out of his parents and live in a new home. He is not saying no but is unable to decide. His parents left the decision to him, they are not holding him back. But he is still unable to decide. My sister is getting frustrated daily and both fighting daily in my house. But he is not leaving our house saying he will decide. We dont know what is going on in his mind. Im sure he hates to live in our house for long but he is unable to decide. Will he ever decide? What should be my sister' s fate. She is very clear that she will never go back to her inlaws house. She just wants a separate house for him and her and kid.

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