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Things You Should Never Forget About Your Kids


You kids will be what you are. So, you need to be careful about the way you behave and talk in front of your kids. At the same time it is very important to be aware of certain things about kids to prevent bad impact on their development. Take a look at the few things which you should never forget about your kids.

As a parent you are probably aware of the fact that dealing with children requires considerably more patience and skill than dealing with adults. There are a number of things that you should always remember about your kids so that you can improve your role as a parent in their lives.

Children Are Super Sensitive

Children are very sensitive and tend to over emotionalise things. Seemingly harmless sentences spoken by adults can bruise the tender feelings of children. When you talk to your kids make sure that you modulate your tone and sentence structure pattern in accordance to the sensibilities of your children.

Children can also pick up tension and under currents of stress between adults so make sure that any dispute between you and your partner should happen out of the sight of your kids. As a parent you should try to take care of the sensitive feelings of your child especially in the early formative years.

Children Are Vulnerable

Your children do not have the experience, awareness or instinct to sense out and then protect themselves from danger. They are in constant danger from molesters, abusers, paedophiles and other dangers from inanimate objects. Children need to be taught about what is danger and then trained about how to avoid it. Most kids who are abused in childhood are not even aware that they have been abused. It is up to parents to teach their kids to stay away from the lurking dangers in society.

Children Absorb Things in Their Unconscious Minds

Psychiatrists say that first 6 years of a child’s life are the most crucial years. This is the time when positive as well as negative situations and feelings are absorbed into the unconscious mind. Memories which are embedded in the unconscious mind stay fixed almost all throughout life. If these memories are bad memories then the child remembers them as emotional wounds. These wounds are an everlasting source of pain to the child. As a parent you should protect your kids from deeply affecting incidents in the early years of childhood.

Your Kids Look up To You

The biggest role model your children have is you. As a parent you have the greatest influence on your kid’s lives. Your child will try to imitate your qualities and will want to become like you. You need to make sure that you cultivate qualities which actually make you a good role model. If you want your kids to demonstrate qualities like kindness, cheerfulness, honesty then make sure that you project these qualities yourself first. Never forget the fact that your kids look up to you.

Kids Are Not Very Good At Identifying Their Own Emotions

Children are emotionally immature and they have not reached a stage where they can differentiate and understand their own emotions. This is the reason why small kids cry most of the time. They cry to express hunger, fear, dissatisfaction or any other general uncomfortable feeling. It is no use telling your kid to stop crying. You need to understand the reason behind their tears and then tackle the reason. When children are young their parents must take on the role of counsellor, friend, guide, parent all rolled in one.

Kids Love Unconditionally

Your children will love you unconditionally and give you moments of rare joy and happiness. The love of a child is total and complete and very soon your children will become the centre of your universe. Make sure that you appreciate the gift of parenthood and fulfil your role to the best of your abilities.

These simple things that you should never forget about your kids will let you deal with your kids in a loving and sensitive way.

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