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Name: akram
Country: Other
more punishment is more descipline

Name: shelendra singh
Country: India
punishments should be realised by the child. she should be understanding that punshishment may be tough next time, if the same mistakes are repeted.

Name: anil kumar
Country: India
punishment should be given to the child to realise the mistake done. a child becomes a man with or without punishment. but the charector developes thru gently tuning during childhood. almost all the misdeeds of a child can be corrected thru scolding or gestures. i am strongly against beating a child. that option should always be reminded to the child if they act wrongly so that they can correct themselves without experiencing it.if one beats the child often, they will not be afraid later as they know this is the maximum punishment they will get for their misdeeds.one should be strict with the child only when it is called for. all the other times we should be friendly with the child. this will make the child to differenciate right and wrong.

Name: holi and jessie
Country: England
i have children myself and spanking them isnt really necisarry no matter wot but all you young mas lay the law down abit more

Name: alicia
Country: USA
i dont think you should spank children over evrything they do you should talk to them and see the promblem

Name: dawn
Country: USA
although it hurts as parents to spank our children, it is very important to do so when deserved. the saying spare the rod, spoil the child is true. god says if we love our children we must use the rod to show them we love them. "he who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him" proverbs 13:24 now i'm not saying to beat our children but if we spank them when necessary and we do it out of love, our children will understand. we as parents must discipline out children, if we don't they will think we don't care or love them. look at our society when spanking was acceptable and look at it now. can anyone see a difference?

Name: Stan
Country: Other
poland. bottom heals much faster than soul. therefore, a small spanking is much better than other forms of punishment (corner, closet etc)

Name: Anupam & Gopa
Country: Canada
punishment does not mean beating child, rather the child should be isolated from his/her beloved for a while for the misdeed.then she should try to avoid doing same misdeed next time to get attached with her beloved.

Name: SPS 3
Country: aahrain
child spanking is necessary at times otherwise the children will follow the wrong path if pampered too much.

Name: Kelley
Country: USA
some children do well with talking or time outs, but i believe in spanking if it's a last resort. my daughter is 17 and was spanked maybe 6 times her whole life. talking and time outs usually worked for her. my 2 boys are a different story. they don't stay in time outs unless you lock the door, witch i have to do sometimes if they are out of control, and talking does nothing for them, so they have been spanked more then their sister ever was. it depends on the child, and whoever says children will respond better to talking or a time out have been lucky enough to have good children, we're not all that lucky.

Name: SPS 3
Country: aahrain
child spanking is necessary at times otherwise the children will follow the wrong path if pampered too much.

Name: Donny
Country: usa
i have a teacher at my school that is indian and he can barely speak english. i think he should be fired because he stinks at teaching. i think the children should be able to spank him because he sucks so bad. stay in india if you want to teach.

Name: neveen
Country: Egypt
ithink the best way 2 bring up is not discipline and spanking and anthor things like this any way there r many ways by acivil methods and from another hand there are many disadvanges in this stupid ways of bring up specially spanking isaw many sites about that object &iam sure that all this is useless action addtion 2 the religions in any faith don'tallow this starng actions like spanking bare bottom and these things . i thought many other parts of the body aren't shameful&aciting like bottom if u realy thought that the hitting is the best way 4 bring up .there is another thing this things leave abad effects on achild .it causes shame ,insult and lowness it also learnes lyings &cowardiceand allthese things reflected badly in forming child character we r in acivil sociaty and therer many democracy ways 2 keepchild manner good ihad broght up this way &isucces in my life

Name: madhu
Country: India
ihav a 4 .6 yrs old son.he is super intelligent&very nice natured.my fil came &stayed 4months herehe lovesthe child but constantlytelling opposite whatever the baby told my son became very irritated now he loses his temper anytime.argues with me father friends teacher complained he bits children .anything we tell he bcomes irritated he does not want to eat sleep write now starts spitting iadvise warnthen beat at the last moment i know i should not please tell me what shall i do?he does not understand any thing as he wants my father constantly sit with him or my mother to read books if they say they r tired want rest he starts beating spiting ..please help me

Name: na
Country: U.S.A.
you are all a bunch of sick sick people worse than murders nd pedophiles hope you kno ur children will b scared for life .

Name: ASHIMA
Country: India
my child is 6 1/2 years old. he is very good child.he is very good in his studies.but there is a big problem with him is that he do't go toilet when he is in school or in someone's house or while playing.everyday his clothes are wet when he come back home from school or from his friends house.i am very much depressed. we have taken up the issue by all means but in vain.please help me.

Name: buy
Country: India
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Name: joanne
Country: USA
punishments is not really effective if you dont explain them the real problem is

Name: KKA
Country: USA
if you don't teach your child to not have tantrums, sulk, of use his manners and choose to ignore these behaviours, you are asking for trouble! children are not stupid and they should not be allowed to get away with not using his manners or thrwoing unacceptable fits. interrupting anyone and not correcting them is a big no- no. no wonder we have a bunch of rude, unexcusable children today.

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