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Name: Saini
Country: India
 You are right! Children love attention and I remember my son calling someone donkey and I was totally pissed off and I need to stare at him while apologizing the victim. Good spanking really helps!
Name: anjum
Country: India
 my son is 5 yrs old and he uses bad words like dog and bitch i know he is learning from his frineds in the compound but the problem is there are 5 such kids of his age group and all say this i cannot restrict him from playing with all of them i have tried by not letting him play for a day when i hear these bad words but again after 2 days he starts saying this or especially when he wants something and i do not give him still i tried to tell him these are bad words if u say so u will not get anything at times i did not buy him things which he asked for because he said these bad words but then again and again he says it . once or twice i have given him good spanking also as i am single mother i cannot put much restriction on him as fear of losing him or he feeling later as i have no dad so mom scolds me more , if u can help me in this matter i will be glad how to stop his bad words.
Name: monika
Country: India
 i feel that we need to be patient with the children. this may be a passing phase. however, it is vital that the child gets a clear message that such acts of his are not welcome. a combination of reward and punishment can be used to instill desirable behaviour e.g. set up a reward for him ( a hug, a choclate, appreciation etc.) if he doesn't use any bad word thru the day. i hope it helps.
Name: Chitra
Country: USA
 in my humble opinion - do not give him material rewards. instead, tell him how proud you are of him when he gets through the day without swearing. and when he does use these words, ignore him. i know, our first instinct is to hit the child right across the face but it is not going to solve any problems. you are just teaching him that it is alright to hit someone smaller than you (one bad habit in exchange for another). ignore him consistently and don't hit him. he is, most probably doing this because it gets him your attention even if negative. you said you are a single parent and that means you have many other problems to think about and you might not be able to give him as much time as he wants. this is just his way of getting attention from you. make it clear to him that you don't appreciate the use of such language (and that bad kids use such language) and you will listen to him only when he is polite and doesn't swear. give him rewards like extra time with you, praising him in front of others for controlling his urge to swear and i am sure he will understand what makes his mom happy. children his age always want to please their parents - it is an instinct in them. make use of this instinct. well, i hope this helps :) good luck!
Name: Karyn Slatin
Country: Mexico
 bad words are soooooooo fun toooo say!!! so are swearing words!!!! haaahaaaa!!!! keep on using words like bitch, shit dog, and ect.!!!!!!
Name: Derrick Williams
Country: USA
 i use to use mean and hurtful words.but it always hurt peoples feelings now i dont do it anymore and kids shouldn't do it either.its wrong
Name: slimhajde
Country: USA
 hey i hope every1 will agree with me on this now listen 2 every1 out ther u cannot stop kids from swearing becuz if u try they'll do it more and i kno parents can b dumbass's and say oh but if they swear it wont get u newhere in life well thats bullshit and it dont matter they'll hear swear words from other ppl but its mostly the parents fault for sayin the words in the 1st place
Name: PAULIZZLE
Country: U.S.A.
 you people need to grow up and just think when you were little n ur mom was yelling at u for cursing its not right and it makes the ladies look really trashy and dog is not a curse word it is an animal but have a good day =)
Name: PAULIZZLE
Country: U.S.A.
 you people need to grow up and just think when you were little n ur mom was yelling at u for cursing its not right and it makes the ladies look really trashy and dog is not a curse word it is an animal but have a good day =)
Name: Accused
Country: Other
 i donot want to tell which country i am from as this happend in a local school. i was in year one and my mother got called up one day . a kid in my class had said that i had called her an abusive name that is inddeed very insulting . i did not even know the meaning of the wotrd then let alone i kenw little english . as i have understood what it means now i can say that i'd never call enyone such a name . i have been brought up in a respectable maner and i am proud when people say how well i have been brought up. teachers should realise the language capabalitoies of kids befor making such remarks . she had no proof to even say that i said it. i will certianlly npot forget that experience . i am only glad that mom stood up for me
Name: Doubt
Country: Macao
 react with humour if you can, rather than anger that line contadicts the rest of the article .... please explain
Name: ashley swingel
Country: usa
 i think i have that problem too. i know how i learned words like that. my real mom made me learn those words. she did care if i said them or not and i say them to my foster mom. some times i don't know what i'm saying i get mad easly. but what shoud i do i'm geting so mad some times. and louse my temper so i don't know.
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