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Womens Issues:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
2002-05-03
Name: Shilpi
Hi Friends, I am going to get married in few months. and as I have heard my friends and cousins talking abt the bleeding, the girls having at first night....so my question is, Is that true, if the girls are having sexual relationsships first time should bleed....or it depends on physical situation of a girl??? I m confused....
Also, I have heard my friends saying it is very painful having sex the first time....so is that pain tolerable?? or not??? I don't know, at one side, I m sooo excited and on the other hand...I m scared...so help me out here...
 
2016-05-25
#1
Name: Ekta
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Yes there are some things with which you can determine virginity of a girl.Usually we hear about initial bleeding while first intercourse happens.You need not get scared for this.This is quite natural for each and every girl.So just be cool and try to enjoy your married life.
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2016-05-24
#2
Name: Neha
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hi Shilpi
It is not so mandatory it depends and you no need to get panic and you dont get tensed every thing will be fine be cool every thing will be fine and it would be better be happy always. I wish you good luck.
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2016-05-23
#3
Name: Reha
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hi Shilpi
Yes there are some things with which you can determine virginity of a girl.Usually we hear about initial bleeding while first intercourse happens.You need not get scared for this.This is quite natural for each and every girl.So just be cool and try to enjoy your married life.
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2016-05-19
#4
Name: Manah
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hi Shipli,
So it would be the better you have solve it on your own and it would be better you would suggest what you have done and what would you suggest to the people who do face the same problem also.
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2016-05-14
#5
Name: Saisha
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hey shilpi
Yes you do bleed when you have your first intercourse. Its absolutely natural though.
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2016-05-12
#6
Name: sruthi
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Yes there are some things with which you can determine virginity of a girl.Usually we hear about initial bleeding while first intercourse happens.You need not get scared for this.This is quite natural for each and every girl.So just be cool and try to enjoy your married life.
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2016-05-09
#7
Name: sruthi
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Yes what you have heard is true.Bleeding happens and also sometimes there are cases in which it doesnt happen too.Sex is not painful,when u start enjoying it.
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2016-05-06
#8
Name: Ragini,
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hello Shipli,
The thing you have posted is not so true and not so lie.It depends up on the situation but now it is not happening at all because girls are involving in games etc an there is chance of losing there only.
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2016-05-05
#9
Name: Preethi
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hello Shilpi,
It is not so mandatory it depends and you no need to get panic and you dont get tensed every thing will be fine be cool every thing will be fine and it would be better be happy always i wish you good luck.
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2016-03-06
#10
Name: Ara
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hey even i am scared of the same when my time will come. but many of my friends have told to take it slow and also relax and leave your body loose. this might help you in less pain and also will give you strength. Ask your husband to be soft one you well thats what i am gonna ask mine.

Enjoy dear
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2013-07-02
#11
Name: jinu
Subject:  for u shilpa
ask ur hubby to maintain slow strokes.............. no need of lubricz... the pain u giv excite the partner and makes a good love making scenes.... then ..enjoy the pain for a real pleasure.......:) njoy buddy
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2016-03-06
#12
Name: Apa
Subject:  RE:for u shilpa
Bleeding is not for sure. since many sports person already looses that because of vigorous exercise and so that is not possible in there case. but ya i doubt about the lubricants whether a good or a bad idea. better to take it slow.

Enjoy
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2016-02-21
#13
Name: prabha
Subject:  hi
its not necessary to have a pain. it is really depends on a guy. if he knows how to do it you will not have pain. i personally didn't feel the lot pain. move ahead step by step. first start with a fingerin then the actual intercourse. it will not hurt.
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2013-07-02
#14
Name: hh
Subject:  hh
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2016-02-21
#15
Name: madboy
Subject:  hi
?? what is this hhhh?
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2003-05-31
#16
Name: advice
Subject:  Pain during first night.
Hey,
Dont be scared about the pain. Follow the following tips.
Remove all your garments, including underwear before lying with your hubby.
apply lubicant oil in your vagina area liberally with your finger.
First lie on your back and keep your legs apart for your husband to have a comfortable intercourse.
After a few stokes you will feel comfort and there will not be much pain.

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2016-03-06
#17
Name: Ara
Subject:  RE:Pain during first night.
hhhh. Thanks for sharing these details . I hope this will help people around to be okay with intercourse. I hope Shilpi you have a great time and enjoy with your husband all your life. These topics are turning into some knowledge park as of now
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2002-07-31
#18
Name: Shilpi
Subject:  Hi all...
Hi Friends... Thank you very much... I m feeling much comfortable by hearing your opinions.. well, my marriage is going to be an arranged one... but I know my to be hubby almost year and a half..... but we haven't been to our first intercourse yet... N e way, Thank you very much, Ria, Chitra, Sree, Sunil, Sandra, Kabita, Priya...... Now, I m not scared at all..... and I have got my answers.... :)..
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2002-05-30
#19
Name: chitra
Subject:  first night
Hi Shilpi,

It is my opinion that very few couples make love on the first night. i am talking ofcourse about arranged marriages. first of all u should try to get to know u'r husband a little more before jumping into sex. so it ususally takes atleast 3days to a week before u have sex for the first time. by then, u are quite relaxed and eager that u do not realize the pain at all. of course since it is the first time, it is a bit uncomfortable the first few times, but i wouldnt say the pain is that bad. so cheers and enjoy and think about the great time u are going to have together.
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2002-05-30
#20
Name: kabita
Subject:  do not worry
Hi
Do not worry, when I got marry, I was also had the same feeling like you.
Try to use lubricated oilment for the first two three times and do not scared just enjoy that will make your body relax which will result you less pain.
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