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Womens Issues:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
2002-05-03
Name: Shilpi
Hi Friends, I am going to get married in few months. and as I have heard my friends and cousins talking abt the bleeding, the girls having at first night....so my question is, Is that true, if the girls are having sexual relationsships first time should bleed....or it depends on physical situation of a girl??? I m confused....
Also, I have heard my friends saying it is very painful having sex the first time....so is that pain tolerable?? or not??? I don't know, at one side, I m sooo excited and on the other hand...I m scared...so help me out here...
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2016-07-03
#1
Name: Sandy
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hi Shilpi,
Pain would be there almost to every one in spite of gender difference and you have to need to bear it for moment and for time being you can tolerate that pain also.
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2016-06-24
#2
Name: Mathur
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hi Shilpi,
The person who as given you information about this did not gave you clarity on that completely.It would be good if you ask them only.
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2016-06-17
#3
Name: Hayaathi
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hi Shilpi,
Pain would be common for every person but bleeding would be optional because no one is facing that issue in these days.And every one had grown up also.
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2016-06-10
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Name: Vardhan
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hi Shilpi,
Yes it would happen for every girl who are having first time in theri life.But the thing is now a days it is not being done because girls are playing all games due to that reason it will not happen.
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2016-06-04
#5
Name: Sameera
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hi Shilpi,
It depends up on the physical status of the girl.And it is not so mandatory for every girl.But some people may think that it is sign for a girl.They need to think out of that.
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2016-05-30
#6
Name: dia
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
It is not so mandatory it depends and you no need to get panic and you dont get tensed every thing will be fine be cool every thing will be fine and it would better be happy always. I wish you good luck
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2016-05-28
#7
Name: sneha
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Yes what you have heard is true.Bleeding happens and also sometimes there are cases in which it doesnt happen too.Sex is not painful when you start enjoying it.
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2016-05-27
#8
Name: Pandey
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hi Shilpa,
So your post has been posted some past years ago and as on date your problem got solved and you were in position that you can give suggestion to all the people also.I hope you got my point.
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2016-05-27
#9
Name: sal
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
So it would be the better you have solve it on your own and it would be better you would suggest what you have done and what would you suggest to the people who do face the same problem also
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2016-05-26
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Name: lucy
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
So it would be the better you have solve it on your own and it would be better you would suggest what you have done and what would you suggest to the people who do face the same problem also.
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2016-05-25
#11
Name: Ekta
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Yes there are some things with which you can determine virginity of a girl.Usually we hear about initial bleeding while first intercourse happens.You need not get scared for this.This is quite natural for each and every girl.So just be cool and try to enjoy your married life.
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2016-05-24
#12
Name: Neha
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hi Shilpi
It is not so mandatory it depends and you no need to get panic and you dont get tensed every thing will be fine be cool every thing will be fine and it would be better be happy always. I wish you good luck.
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2016-05-23
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Name: Reha
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hi Shilpi
Yes there are some things with which you can determine virginity of a girl.Usually we hear about initial bleeding while first intercourse happens.You need not get scared for this.This is quite natural for each and every girl.So just be cool and try to enjoy your married life.
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2016-05-19
#14
Name: Manah
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hi Shipli,
So it would be the better you have solve it on your own and it would be better you would suggest what you have done and what would you suggest to the people who do face the same problem also.
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2016-05-14
#15
Name: Saisha
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hey shilpi
Yes you do bleed when you have your first intercourse. Its absolutely natural though.
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2016-05-12
#16
Name: sruthi
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Yes there are some things with which you can determine virginity of a girl.Usually we hear about initial bleeding while first intercourse happens.You need not get scared for this.This is quite natural for each and every girl.So just be cool and try to enjoy your married life.
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2016-05-09
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Name: sruthi
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Yes what you have heard is true.Bleeding happens and also sometimes there are cases in which it doesnt happen too.Sex is not painful,when u start enjoying it.
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2016-05-06
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Name: Ragini,
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hello Shipli,
The thing you have posted is not so true and not so lie.It depends up on the situation but now it is not happening at all because girls are involving in games etc an there is chance of losing there only.
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2016-05-05
#19
Name: Preethi
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hello Shilpi,
It is not so mandatory it depends and you no need to get panic and you dont get tensed every thing will be fine be cool every thing will be fine and it would be better be happy always i wish you good luck.
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2016-03-06
#20
Name: Ara
Subject:  RE:Pain & Bleeding at first night...
Hey even i am scared of the same when my time will come. but many of my friends have told to take it slow and also relax and leave your body loose. this might help you in less pain and also will give you strength. Ask your husband to be soft one you well thats what i am gonna ask mine.

Enjoy dear
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