i had a missed abortion at 6th week of my pregnancy.it was my first and after 4 years of our marriage.i had several complications,but with god' s grace i conceived.
after my miscarriage i m so depressed and emotionally feel so weak.now i want to conceive as soon as possible.but i m scared about next time.actually i dont know wheather i ill conceive or not ,if yes then when.i was so hopeful for my child to come.
please somebody will help me out to come out of my stress that i can behave normally.and what is is the right time to plan another one. anusha replied. Hi Rani,
I am sorry about what have happened, actually for me also it happened exactly on the sixth week, According to doctor' s advice is plan after 6th month only. One thing for sure \" Everything is for good\" god will bless you with Nice and healthy baby dear. One think you should have in mind, \" Positive thinking\" so that u can have a healthy baby next time, Sto thinking of the past, if you think again and again it will weaken ur health, other than that nothing is going to happen, so these are the times so crucial you have a nice and healthy fodd diet, drink lots of milk, juices and prepare ur health and mind for ur next baby.God will surely bless you with healthy baby soon.Bye
Anu suds replied. hi rani,
am so sory to know about it, same thing happend with me..i concieved after one year of my marrieage and we both were too happy for that but dont know the reason, i too had missed abortion at 6th week and i had to go for abortion on this sunday, now am under medication, its all god' s wish wat doc told me...there is no reason..doc suggest me try now i sud try after 6month only....i dont know wat to do....am on leave and cant overcome with this situation help me out please. Poonam replied. Dear Rani,
I am also suffering from same pain even i concived after 5 yrs of our marriage,but if you want a healthy pregnancy next time,stop thinking about this loss.Dont ever think about your miscarriage when you get second time pregnant.What we have lossed we can not recover but still can give best effort who is going to come...ok so please stop thinking about this & get into the life...i know its not easy bcoz myself i have not recovered from same....but still there are few things which we should leave it on God.
Bcoz he knows what is best for us.
Take care...
K.Radha replied. Dear Rani.

I am very sorry to hear of your loss but have faith that in time you will be feeling better about things. I think the suggestion that you have your doc explain what the medical findings mean is a good idea. Assuming there is an underlying problem you need to be aware of it so that you can get the best treatment during your next pregnancy.

I googled as much information as I could and at 6 weeks gestation it seems the most common cause of miscarriage is that there really isnt a reason. Bad luck I guess is what it is... Even so do look into having your doctor explain things to you asap.

In cases like with Gattu because it was a full term loss it is very important that you allow your body to rest after the harrowing time of a full pregnancy and birthing process... Now because this terrible thing occured quite soon in your pregnancy there really isnt much of a reason for you to wait long before trying again, basically as soon as your cycles have started if you REALLY wanted. My thoughts are that you should speak with your doctor and decide when is the best time for you to begin trying again.

You are going to go through some very heavy emotions and it is not always going to be an easy task to be a the happy little person people want you to be. Greive in what ever way you feel is comfortable and be aware that what ever you are going through, even if it seems a little crazy, is very normal. I sincerely hope that you will soon have the child you desire and that the only tears you shed will be joyous ones.
gattu replied. hi rani ,
i can understand what ur going through because i too had lost my full term baby in febuary ....u can imagin the pain and agony i had been through but strong family support i make u through...we both are sailing in same boat i too conceived after 7 yrs of my marriage but be optimistic and dont loose hope.... think only positive !!!!!!!!see my gynac told me to conceive after 6 months but i consulted a famous doctor of bombay hospital in indore she told me to go for it after 4 months....u only have to take a call..i decided after 5 months sudha replied. dear rani went through your mail i am not a med person i cannot explain the exat meaning of the report why dont you ask your gyne/obsteric what does it mean what annomaly was found and how can it be rectified .i f they are genetic ask if you can do a genetic profiling and then go as the med prescibes ,as per my knowlegde artificail inseminatin is duely considered if there is a high risk of genetic disorder transformation as only selective and goos sperms are injected in .so for such specific detail visit your doc. and donot hurry into anything
love
sudha nisha replied. Hi
Feel v.sad for u.consult ur doct. before u try to conceive becoz u already u had miscarriage.Technology has been improved alot.so dont worry and get depresed even though u have so many complications..Take care sudha replied. dear rani,
my condolence for you and may god give you the strength to bear iy . miscarriage at 6th week usually happens if the foetus is having somne genetic problem did u get a histopathology done to the aborted foetus???
a minimum of 6 cycles needs to be given before you start again for the simple reason the body need to recover from the strain .ask your med when can u starts i am unaware of the complicatin you have ..get properly checked of everything and get additional help when you get preg like a good andrologist oe medicine doc if required. why dont u take a holiday a change of place will help ypi to calm down .last of all have patience dont rush into things and take a decision which might be the wrong one .listen to your med.
we will all pray for you and your well being
love
sudha