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I am mother of a 6 years old son. Initially he was very shy in nature but about 1 year back we got shifted to our hometown and got his school changed. Now he has started interacting with people but he gets obsessive for the friends and goes to any extent for them moreover at home most of the time he is playing mobile games and lacks interest in his studies at the same time he became very argumentive also. We both are working he stays with his elderly grand mom after returning from school. How to handle him? Nandini replied. Hi Deepika, its all because of the kind of kids he is talking to and getting jelled with in the school. Do not worry with time he will be ok might be at the start you will face some trouble. Ritu replied. It is very important for parents to change the argumentative behavior of their child because if you don't correct him at that he will grow up and that habit will then cause a lot of problems to you and him too. NN replied. Many people are obsessive or possessive for the people they are friends with, which is both good and bad. It can turn their friendship into something very big and great or it can also destroy it. Soo explain your son about it. NN replied. You will have to find ways to get hi interested in studies. Because studies are very important. It is nice that he has opened up and is making friends but please make sure he studies well. Handle it with care. Munna replied. Hello Deepika,
So you are concerned about your kid but you need to look after them because they will be the same and they would not change their habit also i wish you would be with your kid and give them moral support a lot. No Name replied. Hello Deepika Joshi,
So you were in trouble initially that he is obsessive and now he has become argumentative with you.So you need to control him in different way.So that he will know how to behave with you and others also. sura replied. if your kid is mingling with other kid then it is good but see with whom he is mingling and be little strict with him like don't give him a mobile phone.