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My son who is 6 yrs old does not mingle with his friends and is very shy? He does not participate in any programmes too. What to do? Falak replied. Hello dear according to me you should start communicating with your kid and ask him as why he is not liking to go out and why he is not opening up just be like his friend and make it a point that he open ups in front of you and then slowly he will open up. Ginni replied. Hi there this is very common issue with our indian kids as we are very much protective for our kids and dont let them open up easily, just do one thing stop following your kid everywhere and just let you kid enjoy his life and then see. Geetu replied. Hi there please guide me also as my daughter is of 11 years and she is very much shy and dont talk to anyone, she just talks about the studies and nothing else even at home she is very quite, please guide me what can be the reason behind this. Geetanjali replied. If your kid is not getting mingled with someone then its not a big issue why are you thinking that your kid is not behaving properly as he is just six years of old and then its completely fine to be like this as it will take some time for your kid to open up. Geeta replied. hello dear this is good to see that you are taking so much care and interest to make your child stand up in front of the world so soon, please get the details on the internet as i am sure there you can always find some good details about it. Garima replied. There are many programs nowadays that children can actually go and make them easy to go and also learn how to get it perfectly, just try to google it and then you can easily find such programs near you. All the best dear my good wishes are with you. Gitika replied. Hello dear please ensure that your kid is not going to be the same after couple of years as this is the time when kids are actually shy and do not feel to talk with everyone and be in themselves, kindly do not worry at all and just be happy and things will be fine. Falak replied. Hi please guide me also as even my child is of seven years of age and even he very shy in fact my child will never play with his friends also he just like to be at home and be with video games and all.Kindly suggest someone what to do. Diana replied. according to me you should not worry at all as this is very common in kids at this age and you should be cool on this, please give some time for your kid to enjoy the life and then see the difference in your kid. All the best dear. Deepika replied. Hello friend if you are worried about this then please start your child sending to some classes where nowadays there are lots of classes where your kid can learn how to deal all such things and will be good to see that he will learn how to get free. Deena replied. Hello dear please relax and just chill and also let your kid be on ease as this is not done and you cannot force your kid for this at this age, please make a point that you do not worry and just let your kid enjoy his life and also you enjoy the same. Deena replied. Just try to make him feel comfortable and call all his friends to home and then see the reaction and just make sure that you leave your kid alone with them and also notice what your kid is doing, please do this and then see the reaction of your kid. Suman replied. Please do not put so much pressure on your kid and even you do not take so much stress as this is not the time to think so much and take this burden, please avoid such thoughts and just enjoy your life and let your kid also enjoy the same. Sujata replied. My thoughts are with you but then are you really looking out to see your kid feel open up at this small age, please let him enjoy and do not put any pressure on him for this, according to me just wait for the perfect timing so that even he can be free to do it. Anushree replied. Oh dear this is really fine and let your kid enjoy the life as this is his age to relax and just be what he is and not to be friendly and open in nature as there is lots of time for it as the ideal age is almost 10 years and till then you should give some time. Anu replied. My friend are you seriously so tensed for it, please make sure that you do not force your kid to go out and make him feel away from you as this will make him more worried and even he will then be more nervous to meet new people, so please give some time on it. Anita replied. Oh my dear this is really sad to see that you are taking so much tension for your kid as this is very normal and infact you should stop worrying abut it as at this age all kids are very shy and very few kids open and dont feel the shyness, relax and be happy. Anaida replied. Hello dear i think you are taking this very seriously as your kid is not that too old and let him enjoy the way he is, please do not worry at all as at this all kids are shy and they feel nervous when they someone new. Please chill and relax do not worry. diya replied. hello snisha,
your kid is 6 years old and you should keep in touch with him like a friend try to make strong bonding with him, and then only he will be talkative and start talking with other friends too. nikita replied. hello snisha,
its great think if you make good and strong bonding with your kid, its helpful for him during try to mingling with other friends, so keep trying and keep your things on wards.