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2003-03-29

Name: DEEPA My daughter is 3-year old. My queries are about our behabiour and realtions in front of my daughter. :
1) How we should we behave in presence of my daughter.
2) Upto what limit we should express our \";love\"; and \";masti\"; in her presence.
3) Is it OK to kiss each other and foddle each other in front of her.
4) Should we behave as gentle men and women or being little naughty is OK.
Please share your experince.

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My daughter is 3-year old. My queries are about our behabiour and realtions in front of my daughter. :
1) How we should we behave in presence of my daughter.
2) Upto what limit we should express our \";love\"; and \";masti\"; in her presence.
3) Is it OK to kiss each other and foddle each other in front of her.
4) Should we behave as gentle men and women or being little naughty is OK.
Please share your experince. shiv replied. My son is almost 6 yrs. He keeps asking me and my wife whether we are married or not. We ask him the reason for his doubts.
He tells if you are married then you should kiss each other. I never see you kiss each other. My friends parents keep kissing each other whenever they meet.
We first laughed at his query. Then we coolly replied, \";We do love each other, we do not kiss each other in front of others..that is how it goes in this house\";. We show our liking in other ways...It does not mean that we do not kiss each other but we do not always do it.
He was satisfied with the answer. He does not ask anymore. Gayatri replied.
You r right shamita.
We should not do any sexual demonstration in front of children. Not even kissing each other.
Because they are too young to understand.
Bindu replied. Yeah... u can express ur love to ur beloved infront of ur child... no matter how old they are. Bcos when they grow up and leave us behind , we both are going to be left alone and atleast he/she can be sure that their father/mother are taken care of ...! shamita replied. a baby has no memory, at least, no conscious memory, but a 3 year old child may remember certain scenes. dont do anything in front of a 3 year old, that you would not do in front of others. kissing is okay, but not very heavy kissing.. maybe a peck here and there.. its always safer and better not to be too physically demonstrative in front of the kids. it can at times disturb them, becuase they do not understand. swathi replied. It is my personal belief that it is okay to show love for each other in front of the child so that she will feel secure, as long as it doesn't turn sexual which is not good for children.

2005-08-04

Name: shiv
Subject:

expression

My son is almost 6 yrs. He keeps asking me and my wife whether we are married or not. We ask him the reason for his doubts.
He tells if you are married then you should kiss each other. I never see you kiss each other. My friends parents keep kissing each other whenever they meet.
We first laughed at his query. Then we coolly replied, \";We do love each other, we do not kiss each other in front of others..that is how it goes in this house\";. We show our liking in other ways...It does not mean that we do not kiss each other but we do not always do it.
He was satisfied with the answer. He does not ask anymore.

2003-04-12

Name: Gayatri
Subject:

my openion

You r right shamita.
We should not do any sexual demonstration in front of children. Not even kissing each other.
Because they are too young to understand.

2003-04-08

Name: Bindu
Subject:

my opinion!

Yeah... u can express ur love to ur beloved infront of ur child... no matter how old they are. Bcos when they grow up and leave us behind , we both are going to be left alone and atleast he/she can be sure that their father/mother are taken care of ...!

2003-04-07

Name: shamita
Subject:

avoidable

a baby has no memory, at least, no conscious memory, but a 3 year old child may remember certain scenes. dont do anything in front of a 3 year old, that you would not do in front of others. kissing is okay, but not very heavy kissing.. maybe a peck here and there.. its always safer and better not to be too physically demonstrative in front of the kids. it can at times disturb them, becuase they do not understand.

2003-04-25

Name: Chandan
Subject:

Love

Hi Shamitha,
I am agrred with you but will you please tell me that these are your real experience or your view only. I mean do you have childeren of the age more than 4 - 5 year.

2003-04-09

Name: Deepa
Subject:

Love

thanks shamitha for a balanced reply. I am 100% agreed with you. we do not do any sexual activity in front of her, but kissing, hugging, holding .... is very ususal.
again thanks

2003-04-07

Name: swathi
Subject:

expression

It is my personal belief that it is okay to show love for each other in front of the child so that she will feel secure, as long as it doesn't turn sexual which is not good for children.

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