Not Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi,
After 7 months of our marriage,we are devoid of intercourse.Initially i had fear of intercourse pain.My husband helped to overcome it,but we couldn' t able to do it.Now my husband dont have any interst in sex.I insist him many times but he runs from it.I am very frustated.Please help me.Thanks for your support. Ginni replied. Hi dear i think you are thinking to much and that is the reason for the bad life and will make this worst if dont stop thinking over, please think that different and make your husband feel happy as he needs you badly. Deepika replied. Hey dear please do not worry and just focus on making your husband feel happy and try to figure out what he likes to have the most in food and prepare that food for him and start the love in different manner. Deena replied. According to me you should take more interest in your husbands small things and make him realize that you are caring extra care of him so that he also feels the love for you and in this manner you can again start your love life. Diana replied. Hello dear feeling very sad for you as your marriage is only seven months old and your husband is not having the interest in you, but i think its your fault somewhere here please speak to your husband about it. Pari replied. Hi dear please tell one thing is your husband hiding something from you as reading your post it feels that something is fishy and your husband is having some relationship outside please be ware of this as you are in danger. Preeti replied. Hi there if you are still having the same problem please get in touch with us as we can guide you properly and will help to enhance your married life, if you have any doubts in your mind please feel free to contact us. Priyanka replied. Ciya dear please grow up as you are messing up your marriage life and this is not done, why are you not happy with relationship is your marriage done against your wish or is there any other problem please share the details. Pooja replied. Hey Ciya please do not worry and do not panic as things will get on track just relax and think new ways to make your husband happy as that is main point, also be very sure that he is not hiding anything from you. Pinky replied. Hi do you have any cousins who are married or any friends who are recently married so you can take advice from them and get an idea of what they do, its very simple as husbands need only fun from their wives and nothing else. Priya replied. Hey dear please get some advice from your friends and if some close family members as in this way you will understand how to keep your husband happy and then gradually you will also learn the art, please do not worry at all in this. Rupali replied. I would suggest you to please plan a small trip with your husband and make him feel that you are the best in terms of having fun or else your husband will completely loose interest in you and will start finding love outside. Ruchi replied. Hello dear its normal that your husband is not taking interest is because of your own behavior but then you should understand that you both are newly married and it takes time to adjust in all these things to happen. Rimi replied. Hi there this is really small issue and you must treat it normally, think that you are in a world where you can have fun openly with your partner and there is no one watching you, then you can have the pleasure and enjoy the real sex. Reshma replied. Hi Ciya if you think positive and think that you love your husband and you have to do for him to make him feel happy then you can surely do this, please think that you are newly wed couples and there many years to come forward so please make it happen. Rinky replied. Hello dear the same is my story but here we are married from past four years and now i am feeling the pain as i couldn't give the love what my husband was looking from me, and now the situation is that we are planing to get divorced. Riama replied. Hi there if you are thinking its your fault then you are completely wrong as its joint relationship and both must be equally contributing so please make sure that your husband is supporting you in the matter and making you feel calm. Reema replied. Hey Ciya do you think that your husband is not equally responsible to that as its his duty also to make you comfortable in this situation as girls are normally sensitive in nature and they need a push for this so please speak to him on this. Rajesh replied. Hi dear please make your husband feel that you really love him the most and explain him the problem also and i am sure he will understand and will give you time and will also support you in this matter if he also loves you. Ranjana replied. Hello dear please do not worry at all and have patience and its the best thing to have and in mean time please figure it out why are you so nervous of having sex as that is the best thing to happen with anyone and people just love it. Jaz replied. Hey dear please do not worry as you are very innocent and need to solve this on your own so please think positive and get a solution for this, if you want you can use the internet for your help and try to find new ways to have fun.