hi everyone.when i was pregnant, i asked a question here about removing hair on my to-be baby's body,as my hubby is very hairy and i was affraid, my little girl would have lots of hair too. well, she was born with hair, and some amma's told me not to worry,and tht the hair would fall off by itself. some even discouraged using oil massage, coz, it'll make the baby dark. since i had/have no help from either side of my family( love marraige, n loads of problems) i had to look after my baby myself. now, she'll be 2 in a few days, and the hair on her body has not lessened. her forehead is covered wid so much hair, and so is her back. now, i feel cheated... seems like there was no proper advise.. i knw of a lady who does daily 'til'oil(sesame seed), and, her baby is hairless!! he even has a wonderful glow, and the colour tone of his body(though wheat-ish colour) is so smooth. well...now i feel sooo bad... anyways, theres no point in regretting.. but,now, i wanna do oil massage for her daily, and also a 'chandan' (sandalwood paste) massage. pls advise if tht would be any good. i really need lots of comfort, but truthfull replies pls. thankyou all in advance. your wisdom is very precious to me.