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2011-08-22
Name: Niranjan Dear Friends,
This is Niranjan 18 M from tamil nadu.
I' m doing my Bcom in Correspondence. Before three months my brother and his wife dead in a road accident.
Now my mom went to a astrologer with my jathakam. By seeing my jathakam he said that I have a gandam . So as soon as possible I would be headshaved,ear bored and nose pierced. For 1 year I have to wear girls dresses. My mom fixed the date of my ear boring and nose piercing ceremony as this wednsday. So please give an idea to escape or to face the society as a boy with girls dress.
comments awaited.
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2011-09-06
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Name: Siva
Subject:  Thank you for your comments
Niranjan, thank you for your reply. it is very much interesting.
if you don' t mind you can send a photos to the following id, sivau9001 at g mail
God bless you
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2011-09-13
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Name: NIRANJAN
Subject:  Photo refusal
Dear Siva,
You can ask photos but, giving the photos will not be a good decision as I´ m not doing it for fun.
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2011-09-01
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Name: Siva
Subject:  Advised by astrologer
Niranjan,

If it is the way to get remedy for gandam then go for it.

i know there is much valuable reasons for nose piercing. it is the remedy if you are remaining child. Normally, if Jupiter is so week this is the only way to get remedy.

Girls nose piercing is for different reasons but in our customs every girls must pierce their nose for the well being of their husband and their own life.

please write your experinace.

Regards
Siva
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2011-09-04
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Name: Niranjan
Subject:  Orthodox family problem
Hi,
Last 28th i had undergone for pariharam.
I´ m nose pierced and headshaved. Now I´ m wearing only half sarees and sarees. I´ m looking so beautiful in this avatar.
On 28 i had my headshave at my house. The barber came by 9:00Am. He shave my head very smooth for half an hour.
Then my mom advised me to wear a half saree. But I don´ t know how to wear. I called my dearest friendi and asked her to help me. She helped me wearing a half saree. After that I sat infront of pooja room. My mom asked me to have tilak. Then she first pierced my ears. OOh its too paining. I got tears in my eyes.She said hold on for two minutes. It will be alright. Then she pierced my nose and wore me ring of nice design. I asked her whether she brought it for me. She said yes. This is for you.
I ran away after wearing rings with shy.
She gave me a mirror and said to see the mirror.
I amazed by seeing myself in the mirror.Because I´ m totally looking like a teenage girl.
My friendi encouraged me and hugged me. We both went out to see how society reacts by seeing me like this.
But they reacted nice.
Atlast we both came back to home. My mom said behave like a girl for somedays to face the society.
But it was a nice experience to have this.
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