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2007-02-20
Name: latika jain i am married 10years back.i have a girl her age is 7 years.
now i am preg.2months.idecide to abortion.because i was exe.in mutitinational company.i canot give a substational time to newcomer baby & taking care.
i have a breastfeeding problem for the first baby.
i am feeling very gilty & i aam coming under trimendos pressure that i am taking this decision.
what should i do?
any body can help me.my husband & daugter wants a newcomer
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2007-09-23
#1
Name: Jhumri
Subject:  nanny
For all you high-paid executives that don' t want to give up work to have another child, yet don' t want an abortion, why can' t you hire someone to care for your child? You have 9 months to find someone you love, and to save money to pay for it if needed. There are so many people looking for work all throughout India, I am sure you could find someone if you really looked.
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2007-05-11
#2
Name: Shona
Subject:  hurt
i have two kids, and have had an abortion. for obvious reasons. all i could imagine was if a new baby will have my daughters eyes. and imagining the hurt in them as i flush her down the drain, her own mother has rejected her!
its terrible.

by now the originator of the message would have decided what to do. do share
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2007-05-09
#3
Name: fb
Subject:  hey
hey latika what have u decided i read daily for your decision ?i am in similar position.
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2007-05-09
#4
Name: jpr
Subject:  plz dont go 4 abortion
hi latika,my sincere suggestion is dont go 4 abortion.b' coz i know how sad it will be,killing a innocent baby is really sin,i did that sin for a silly reason like u,now iam so much worrying about that.so plz let him come,and make ur lifes more happy
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2007-05-07
#5
Name: Falguni
Subject:  Similar Position
I am in just the same position as you. i have daughter who is 4 yrs old and i have unplanned pregnancy,I am week over two months pregnant. i am in a fix.I too work for One of the biggest MNC.We are not able to decide what to do. My child desperately needs a company. But i am not sure what to do? No body to take care of child from family for a long time.
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2009-08-20
#6
Name: Sachin
Subject:  Hi Falguni
I guess by now you have done the needful...i say...why do you women have unprotected sex if you do not want kids...how could you even think on writing that you had unplanned pregnancy....this could only happen if you are raped...otherwise in consenstual sex you must take protection...do fool yourself and us please...
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2007-05-07
#7
Name: Jessica
Subject:  You must be crazy
What are you upto? Abortion for a selfish reason like this. You have a seven year old girl. Is it fair not to let her have a brother or sister to share her life with. Think about it your working status anyways must keep her from bonding with you. Sibbling bonding is very different from parent bonding. A reason like unable to devote time to a new baby because of work pressure is the most ridiculous reason I have heard for taking an innocent life. I have given up forgone 4 years and have not been granted a promotion just because I chose to stay by the side of my child when he needed me. I do not regret it even a single day. What matters in life is what you want not what a multi-national will dictate to you. Change your job, if the company has such unfriendly family policies. You will not get an opportunity to have a baby when your forty, neither will the company pay you for loss of the child!
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2007-04-25
#8
Name: jaspreet
Subject:  abortion
hi
i m jaspreet
i was two months pragnent
but doc said my baby is not growing
even fetal pole is not seen up to 8weeks
from 8th week
i everyday bleed
1-2 drop everyday
i dont know what' s the reasons behind it
plz aware me
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2007-04-09
#9
Name: Kavita
Subject:  Abortion?
Hi, If you decide not to keep the baby, I am ready to adopt her. Please consider and let me know. I am unable to have a child of my own, and we very much want a child to care for and love.
Do please think about it.
warm regards,
Kavita
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2007-02-24
#10
Name: PS
Subject:  Hey
Why don' t you post your message in the Women' s Issues board? You' ll definitely get more replies..

About breast feeding, you can try formula..nowadays you get such good ones, that if you cant breast feed, the baby can still get good nutrition...

Assuming ofcourse that you do go in for the baby...
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