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You Are Beautiful

It is a shame when women go out of their way to find fault with themselves. Most women are insecure with no good reason.


More often than not, a woman's physical appearance plays a major role in affecting her confidence. It is amazing when you think about all the reasons women get so insecure. Someone has a paunch, someone has a few pimples, someone has a bad nose, someone has bad hair. Someone's breasts are too big, and someone's are too small. Someone is too fat, and someone is too thin.

Not all overweight women are insecure. In fact, many love their bodies just the way they are, but there are many who are insecure for this reason. Similarly, a bad complexion does not bother Latha, but Mary's pimples are causing her to lose all her self-esteem.

Stop for a moment and think about your looks. Your looks essentially are all about how you look to another person, so look at yourself through someone else's eyes. Think back to some other people you know, and figure out what would they be insecure about. You will discover you got it all wrong. You may wonder what Sarita has to be insecure about. If you must hazard a guess, you'd say she's not too happy with her curly hair. And then you discover she hates her nose. Her nose What's wrong with that?

Others don't notice it!

Very often you will find that what upsets you the most about your looks is something that other people don't even notice. And if they do, they pay little attention to it. When conversing with Ravi, you may notice that he has a few pimples on his face, but within a few minutes of interesting conversation you forget all that and start noticing his nice smile, his great sense of humour or, if you are observant, his long eyelashes!

It is a shame when women go out of their way to find fault with themselves. True, certain severe things may cause you to be troubled, but most women are insecure with no good reason.

Observe your behaviour at a get-together. Your eyes will be drawn towards good-looking people first. So, give your positive features importance, and enhance them with makeup. Draw attention to your beautiful eyes or lips, and no one's going to notice your large hips, your fat fingers, or whatever you are insecure about.

No one is perfect

If you are overweight, people that are slim may catch your eye, but a slim person may not even notice who is overweight or not she may be more into observing people's noses, because she thinks she has a bad one. While you envy her her figure, she may envy you your lovely perky nose.

Remember this

No one notices much about others, unless they are very, very beautiful or very, very ugly. 90 percent of the people fall in between and spend most of their time worrying about little things that impact no one.

Something may trouble you today, and when it's mended, you will find something else to be insecure about. It's like getting a new job. When you get one, you're the happiest person, for around a month. After that you start noticing the politics, your bad boss, the bad working hours, and start dreaming about another, better job. The difference is that moving on to a better job is constructive, but feeling insecure because of your little flaws is destructive. Often, it is these flaws that enhance your sex appeal and add to your personality and character, so tell yourself that you wouldn't change them for the world. Accept them, and love yourself.




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Name: shahzeb
City:   mingora
Comments:   i wana become smart and beautifull.give me some ideas and tactics. thanx
Name: vandana
City:   usa
Comments:   Very interesting.. I just started to feel negative about myself but your article did lift my spirits... the most important thing anyone should carry is a SMILE and no one will ever look at anything else in you. so keep smiling.. it really works.
Name: chanchal
City:   india
Comments:   i agree with vandana.not only your smile works wonderfully on you, it increases the chances of others being happy too, making you happier.
Name: Preeti
City:   India
Comments:   Do something best and unique then everyone will salute u try to be best instead of become beautiful thats what I believe
Name: Jesus Sambrero
City:   IRAQ
Comments:   I'm 8 I wheigh 372 pounds is that normal.
Name: Jade
City:   Houston
Comments:   This article really helped me. I've been feeling a bit down latly about my appearence when comparing myself to my best friend. When I asked her what she thought of her looks, she just said, "I wish I didn't look this way because of the way guys stare at me." As it turns out you were right, pretty people are just as inscure as everyone else!
Name: Guntash Ashit
City:   india
Comments:   help me. i stink . my body odor is unbarablee. please & thank you
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City:   pune
Comments:   your stiel very bueatyfull
Name: sweta
City:   australia
Comments:   guntash, take a bath with stronger ph level soaps, ask your pharmacist about it. and dont forget to scrub it on you twice a day. in the morning and at night. also buy extra strong deodrant and extra strong perfumes. buy extra strong detergent to rid any smells from your clothes. if you live in an environment where there is constantly any type of odor, do somehting about it.
Name: lyle
City:   philippines
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Name: andyyy
City:   england
Comments:   hey ur atricles r really cool, oh by the way bout the under arm odor, if you shave all ur hair off then there will b no odour
Name: Deepti
City:   Hyderabad
Comments:   Nice article.
Name: anuj
City:   jaipur
Comments:   HI people the article was really nice lately iwas getting v conscious of my looks and getting tensend but this one realy helped me i l try to use it
Name: Sasha
City:   florida
Comments:   This is a message for everybody who is reading this. You might wish you could be Aishwariya or Sushmita right? But you got to remember something, bollywood and hollywood are gimicks! If you remove make up from these so called beautiful ladies and pretend they aren´t celebreties, no one´s gonna give a damn bout them. You are much more beautiful compared to them! So stop worrying about your figure, your nose, your hair, be happy and SMILE! You are UNIQUE!
Name: cathy
City:   trindy
Comments:   I bath morning & night and put on deoderant. As soon as I finish I start sweating and underarm ordor starts. As the day goes on I put on deoderant constantly. Please help.
Name: Swathi
City:   Tirupathi, India
Comments:   Hi, everyone what Sasha told is exactly right.The inner confidence make the face to glow and beautiful.Be happy with what u have and keep smiling always then u will be the most beautiful womengirl in the world.Bye..
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City:   kolkata
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Name: Sheeloo
City:   Kolkata
Comments:   Very sensible article that is convincing.Was always made to Believe I was fat and ugly,till I did away with the husband.Realized He kept making fun of my looks to cover up his complexes.Insecure bloody fool!So take a tip and wave a cheery last goodbye if it goes too far!"Oh yeah,I´m beautiful!" Tell yourself that and enjoy life.Bye for now!
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