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2013-02-13

Name: Soniya s Hello,

My DH has many joint accounts with my MIL......She takes care of his investments.....I have no idea how much she spends and how much she invests and where she invests.......My husband ' s salary is half of my salary.....We presently live at MIL' s home......She is a drama queen......I and DH share my daughters educational expenses half half ....all other expenses are taken care of by DH and MIL.....

I have a financial insecurity that if ever my DH expires I' ll have nothing much in hand monetarily.The same has happened to my MIL....After my FIL expired she didn' t get the property ....As they say History repeats I want to be financially sound....How can I knock sense into my husbands head ,that he has to take policies investments in my name instead of his mother.....

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2014-07-15

Name: kumar
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soniya

You can obviosuly have to take your MIL and you DH into confidence. So come up with a plan of investment for yourself and try to convince your DH first. Then both of you combined convince your MIL. If your DH doesnt really agree, then you have to live with it hoping your MIL will pass on the money to you in future.

2016-02-08

Name: kk
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yaah just speak on the topic and just try to get more info about their investments and try to take both of them in ur confidence. as ur MIL will pass on the property to u make her realize what she has suffered and ttell her she doesn't want to suffer the same.

2013-02-19

Name: friend
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convince your hubby

instead of taking it on your name you can ask your DH to put it on his name and put your 2nd..

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