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I have a small family. Myhusband is a community lover. He is very much involved outside. I have started living on my own. But i have a son, aged 7. It was no problem uptil now. But he is now growing up and missing his father a lot. When he see others children with their father. At times he gets irritated in his behaviour. He is hard to handle now forme. Other males in joint family are incompetitive and not capable. In whose closet i should leave my child. Worried..Please advise LA replied. I would really like to help you if I can but I don't fully understand your question. What do you mean, in who's closet should you leave your son?

Why are you living alone? Just curious.

And it makes sense that your son will feel somewhat bad about not having his father around. Are you saying that his father is not around because he is busy with the community and neglects his family's needs? If so then you need to tell him about this and make him see what he is doing to his child. But either way, you have to be strong and not let your son be too aware of your problem with your husband, at least not until he is a bit older and can understand the situation better. But you should give your son all the love you have and comfort him when he is sad. You can't change what he will go through but you can make it easier and more acceptable for him to live with.