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Hi, i' m carrying & in 4 months pregnancy now. Ever since our 2 yrs of marriage (love marriage), my MIL & unmarried SIL have been too close to my hubby, he also cares a lot for them. The prob is that my MIL SIL control entire household, now that frm 3 mnths i stopped working and staying at home, on doc' s advice.. I' m feeling very awkward.

Frm beginning, when i was working my SIL & MIL get up too early in morning, does each and every bit of household work themselves, cook whatever food they want and serve me & my hubby. At first i thought so kind of them. But they never allowed me to touch anything or do anything. At same time fought at times, saying i dnt do any work. I' m not a person who' ll do all work according to their wish, as i hav my own ideas.. but they r too controlling. They say \" i dont knw to do any of those things\" although they know i do & they pick some comments if i do anything. They wanted me to stay away frm all these work & i stayed out.. unwillingly. Now also they continue to manipulate and never allow me to do anything, saying i need to take care, i cant do it, i wont do it properly & finally end up doing all the work for my hubby.

My hubby also says they wont listen to us, so let them do whatever otherwise they' ll fite and ask us to get out of house.. so to avoid all these, i am staying quite. But i really hate to b under their control. But am i really taken advantage of? what my MIL & SIL is actualy aiming at? how can i avoid these situations?.. pls help. simran replied. dear my sister has face the same problem in her in-laws place..please its a request don' t take all these stress because baby gets affected... my sis daughter is suffering now c is very small and got operated at the age of 3 months.. please its my suggestion ,don' t take stress or just go and stay with ur mother don' t make the baby ...suffer..