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2003-10-26

Name: pari hi,
just wanted to say it to someone.
we were not planning for a baby. in fact, we were planning against having a baby...but somehow i conceived after just 9 months aft my marriage. and this being my first preg, we decided to take it. everybody was so happy...till 23rd nov...when i had some bleeding just for no reason at all. my first ultrascan at 9 weeks of pregnancy showed an embryonic sac had developed but there was no embryo...the zygote had not developed into a foetus at all...so i had to go in for a clean-up on 25th oct...
everything is over now. im getting sorry messages from friends and relatives.
and believe me,deep, losing a baby at 9 weeks is no less painful than losing a baby at 36 weeks. it happend for no reason at all. im worried if il ever conceive again. but what haunts me most is the thought that we were so happy...we did not want the baby...still it came...we happily accepted it...and it went off...WHY???
people say wotever happened is for ur own good...wot good did it do to me?
i wish someone would reply soon,
pari.

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2004-04-22

Name: Taryn
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losing baby

the same thing happened to me, pari. i had an ultrasound and there was no baby, just a sac. i had to have a dnc. i am trying now with no success to have another baby but i have hope. baby dust to you.

2003-10-30

Name: deep
Subject:

i agree

it is difficult to lose a child at any stage... 9 weeks or 36 weeks... it doesn't take long for one to dream of a zillion things... May God give us strength to get on with life and shower his blessing on all so that we can have children in arms soon.

Take care

2003-10-30

Name: Me
Subject:

Hi Pari

I am so sorry that you had to go through such a terrible situation.

These things happen. But if you get depressed now itself, this will only reduce your odds of conceiving. So hold on, and pray a lot.

Good Luck!

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