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I am a working woman,having 9months old baby,joined back office from 3months now.Since my baby was 6months old,I had left her with my in-laws,(My mother-in-law and sister-in-law live in the same apartment).to take care during the day time.So,both of them take care of her.We live separately,In the evening we come back and pick our child and go home.Initially it was going fine,But,now my baby is growing and started recognising people and is learning new things.Now-a-days,I feel like the bonding between me and my baby is reducing.After I reach home,she comes to me,plays for a while and again goes back to her play.Since my sister-in-law is staying downstairs,whenever she comes up,my baby wants to go down to their house,Which I don' t like.Because,I want to spend my time with my baby when I am around her.My sil takes her down,even without informing me and brings her after a long time,which i do not like it.There are even little things which irritate me.My MIL always suggests me how to feed my baby,what she likes and what she doesn' t like.I am her mother and I feel I know her better than my mil.My relationship with them is good.But,When it comes to my baby I am not able to bear,if someone is taking my place.I am not sure how to protest this. kinjal replied. Hey i dont think you need to get insecure wit ur MIL... she spents more tym with ur daughter so obviously c will know more abt ur baby na... its k on weekends try to give tym to ur baby. ask replied. its ok, nothing had happened so bad, you just give love and time to your baby after work.i know it would be difficult for you but you can do this and the baby will love you in future for sure. so dont worry friend.