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Hi, Frnds, i just saw the articles of many ppl here and thought i would also get suggestion for my problem......Plssssss help me to overcome my problem as i am not to able to share this with any of my family members. Mine is a arranged marriage got married one year back and now i am expecting my delivery in a month but after few months of my marriage i understood about my husband and his full character. He is fully reserved type and doesnt speak to anyone and doesnt even goes out when he is at home in weekends. The problem here is he takes care of me well. but he always wants me to be with him and near him which i dont like at all. I want him to be independent, enjoy his time with his friends or parents even when iam not at home.But he never does that and he does not allow me to go out with my frnds as he will feel bored at home. and now especially the problem became severe as iam at my moms place and he is telling he is feeling bored to be at his home. after all we both are in chennai only he used to come and spend time with me all weekends. I have been adviced by the doctor not to travel so even if he come to my moms place we have to onside home ly from morning till evening. I feel like frustrated if he is sitting always at the back of me.....i want to go out and spend time but he doesnt do that....I feel like i am lacking my privacy....and i have spoken to him about this many times but there is no change...with in this one year i feel like hating my life plsssss help me frnds how to change him and how to make him understand that he should engage his time in other activitis too like going out with frnds, speaking to relatives etc.....

Expecting a good reply from someone.
Thanks.
Preeti
sultan M replied. Hi Preeti,
i doubt if he is possesive or generally a reserved guy, u need to express ur feelings to him n make him undrstand that this is an irritating behaviour and he needs to chage, as u said u r carrying so wait untill u deliver, may be after the arrival of the baby he will have a partner to keep himself involved and make him busy.

Do not worry much and do take good care of self, and wish you good luck..!!