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Name: swati

Hi,
I am a 34 yrs working with MNC.We got married
in 1996 and after 3-4 months my brother in law came to join us.He started living with us persuding me all the times.Then after an year second brother in law came.We started living together and as the time grew small happening started coming up which i solved or ifnored keeping my husband,s happiness in view.My younger BIL studied and then got the job and so hiring a high attitude.He is very professional and started manipulation at home in different aspects.For the last 5 months after a small quareel between us ,started keeping silence.On various issues he became quiet and talks only to my husband.He makes me feel that i am no one to stop him for any misbehaviour or so.So this way i am cut off completely with him.
My thinking is its long 7 yrs back that i am taking care of the two BIL,s.So, now when they r self standing they should stay seperately to aviod quarrels and all.Because i think i have alredy supported them enough to make them stand.
Please suggest on this.

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