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Hi friends,

I need ur help 2 show me the right way .I am confused and worried .My brother’s 1st marriage failed because she had an xtra marital affair and aftr an yr os so my brother remarried a divorcee just like him.Tho my sister in law acts good 2 us ,my parents and myself, she always fights with my brother like anything for evrything .He is a very easy going guy and so she takes advantage of it.and I hav a feeling that she is pretending 2 b nice 2 evryone to convince evryone that she is v.v.good but only we at home know she is driving my brother nuts directly and indirectly us and once she starts yelling she wont listen 2 anyone and we all keep quiet because we don’t want our interference to worsen the situation and hamper my brother’s marriage in anyway.Tho my parents keep their cool I can’t tho I also try my best 2 ignore but now its more dan enuf.Because my brother went thru a lot and so do all of us .it hurts 2 c him going through all dis.She abuses him like nything.It hurts me like hell and I feel like snapping her bak as evry1 else just keep their cool. I don’t know y I cant stop thinking abt all dis and my hatred 2wards my sister in law is increasing day by day.What should I do? Plssssssss throw some light,advise me ,help me if u can …I would really appreciate that.

Kindly reply.

Thanx Presto replied. I cn sense d pain n torture u n ur family r going thru. I suggest u tlk tlk ur bro n find out wat makes him to go thru all dis quietly. I wil nt suggest u to directly interfere in dis and may b a frnd of ur brothr cn help ease his life by tlkng to him n his wife for tht matter... bt nt in ny case u intefere, d conditn wil on ly worsen. ur brthr shd take d lead and settel this by maturity by disucussin, dnt ignore d needs of ur sis in law my b she wnts smthng whc she is nt getting, let ur bro handle it and u at best only discuss with him... Good Luck...