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Hi Dear Ladies out there.I am in a very confused state and upset.My present life goes like this...
I am a married woman with 4 yr old kid.My worry is abt my husband.As we both are working in IT, we are unable to look after my kid and have left her in my native(mother' s place).
The issue is my hubby is not at all interested in me. Although he has love and affection on me, he doesnt show it out. Whenever he comes from office, he gets inside the room and sits in his laptop. Till dinner and after dinner also he will be with his laptop saying he has having some work.
I dont have any other option rather watching tv. Hw long can I watch tv?? I am very much frustrated. I dnt have my kid with me around and my hubby also in his own world. I feel helpless and lonenly.

He takes me out and buy the things I ask for (i dnt demand...after all only common things..not like jewellery, dresses etc) He thinks that this satisfies me in all aspect. Do these things satisfies women??? I only asked him to show love and affection towards me. He dont understand me at all. He asks me back \" what else do I need to do\" ?? I dont remember when we last had sex.(maybe 3-4 months back).
I have spoke to him many times but in vain. No change in him. I feel depressed and helpless!!



axe replied. your prob lies completely on part of ur hubby.
u seriously are in some grave prob...
i think its better to fix it up at this moment right away...or in future it can aggravate the distance b/w u two.

well..try to seduce him..show to him..and make him realise that u love him more than anything else..and want him very badly.

be patient..its not gonna change him in just a day..and dont expect sex right away.
initially...dont ask 4 ur own satisfaction..but make him realise..that he' s doin injustice to himself..

rather than telling him to take out tym 4 u..tell him
\" Sweetheart u r doin a lot of work...why dont u take out sometym 4 urself..take a lil care of urs.\" etc. etc.

ask him if he' s tired after work..give him mild massage..rub his forehead...shoulders...
pour out ur love slowly and very slowly 2 him.

dont let him kno that u r making some effort...make it like usual.

be imaginative...be creative roshni replied. Hi,

Me in same boat where r u from....