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Hi,
I am pregnant in another 2 months i will deliver a baby. My parents are not bothered at all how difficult for me to go with job and house chores, my hubby is really very caring n how much ever he can he is doing more than that but i still feel that being in the same country and staying close to my city (9hrs journey) they come to just see us for a day that too to show the society n my in-laws that they are bothered abt me but in actuality, when they come for a day, situation gets more hectic for me for running around n cooking n taking care of them and on top of it, i hardly get time to relax on that Weekend. Its so difficult to stand do home/kitchen chores but they dont bother n every month they come on weekend and go off. When i asked my mom when is she planning to come again she is saying she will come after two months and she will send dad to give that one day visit, im really shocked, i dont know what to do. My hubby is saying it would have been there responsibility to take care of me as it is my first pregnancy.
Mom is saying she will come on the delivery day which is given by doctor. I am really confused, i am thinking if delivery happens a week before or so also i will not inform them till i give my baby is born. They say that they have to look after my brother' s son who is of 9 yrs and have to look after son and daughter in law as they both go to work.
some times i cry, it really hurts when parents ignore me.
sony replied. as this is your first pregnancy why dont u move to your mothers place for delivery.when ever ur mother is coming to visit u ask her to help in kitchen chores.talk with her ur problems.all the best