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Name: vaishali cool

Hi All,

I had posted on the thread of \";help\"; - I asked my husband if my SIL could move in the same locality as we stay - what he said is they will move out once my SIL has a stable job - Right now she is earning $8/hr and works for 10 hr daily.

It has already been l year that they migrated and are living with us - My other SIL (who is here since 20 yrs) takes no responsibilities and neither finds a job for her or shows any kind of support. Its all on me and my husband. Moreover my IL's already stay with us

So right now eventough we are a newly married couple - there is no privacy and nothing that we two can do what we wish - as SIL's kids always want to accompany us - due to this reason even if I tell my husband to go out for dinner (just the 2 of us) he would decline

Any ideas/suggestions to tackle the situation................... - I already told my MIL to ask my SIL to move out but she has the same reply - she will move when she has a good job (but my SIL does not try to read or speak english - so finding a good job is tough)

lastly, if anyone knows a good place where she can find work - I am in central NJ.

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