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One had first night with his wife.
It is agreed that Hymen absence is not a symptom of Non-Virginity. Ok.
But if One was able to get inside in first attempt without much pain. So what should One perceive about his Wife?
Can anybody throw a True Light on it?
Male S replied. Is there any Woman who can share her opinions/suggestion/guidance on my issue??? Vick replied. Mr Male S,
You are an inspiration...for people who are inclined to wreck their lives apart.

You just had your first night, with the wife who will be your life partner, if you choose her to be. And you are worried about your experience...right off the bat...way in the initial stages of the game.

At this juncture, you should have been happy and working towards building up the foundation of a good marriage - Trust! You are flipping totally on the other side.

Most of the description that you gave is first of all relative.

\" able to get inside in first attempt\" - May be your position was like that, to make the job easier and hassle free.

\" No pain\" - Now thats totally relative. Maybe she was submissive and knowledge less enough, not to convey it, at that important and pleasurable moment of your lives...may be she was atheletic. Or maybe she indulged in self pleasure. a.k.a mastrubation. (Remember, if you could jack off on your own, its ok for her to have done that too in the past, she is human afterall). All of these could be the reasons that contributed towards your experience.

What you want to perceive about your wife is totally upto you. Just consider the flip side too. Just one experience and you are already inclining towards checking her fidelity...you are headed towards the wrong road mister.

words of opinion...man to man. thats all.