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Me and my husband both are working, earning handsome amounts.Its two years of our marriage, now I am even pregnant, Issue is my BIL who is 27 years of age and is 11th fail but keeps dream to become a billionaire inhours. It starts, when after my marriage my husband told me about him and asked m,e to take care, i took up the respnsibility and with my jacks i get him a job in an mnc with reasonable salary, but as his attitude he started using mine and husbands name to get his work done, lastly he made a fraud of an odd 70000, which lately we have to fill up. After this he was send back to my in laws asking to seek mechanic course as they live in small town and can have a regular check on him, but after remaining for 2-3 months he insisted to come back, but this time my hubby was not interested but then also he ran from there and came to our place, but my hubby did not allow him to stay. So for 6-7 months he was away living in same city, i helped him everytime with some amount knowm ou unknowm to my husband, then i realised that his expenses was all weird talking on phones with his so called gf making a bill of 9000 and likes...now again he has joined back thanks to my pil, a feeling of hatred has come up in my mind against him coz after helping him so much he has put up all the blame on me that keeping him in an mnc has raised up his thoughts and now bcoz me he is flying high and cannot return to floor. and many other nuisense that he shared to my fil. many atimes he knowingly says some words infront of my hubby that result into a fight. I am getting more and more irritated day by day, as i dont know his intention when I ask him to realise his responsibility he infront of me says bhaiya is there to seek responsibility of me and elders, and infromt of my fil he pretends that if I am makinh himfeel as a burden on family. I am worried about future coz now my baby will be in existence soon, and till now we havent saved a bit coz not coming out with these liabilities.
Pls help what should I do?
Kiran replied. Hi,
Talk to ur husband and dont worry much about ur BIL. After all, he is not ur responsibilty. He is mature enough to think about himself...u have tried ur best..if he is still not able to realize his responsibilites, leave it to himself and think about your family and baby