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I do not know whether this is the right place to put my problem but anyhow please help me to take decision .
We were based in Gurgon but shifted to a smaller town(down south) for a good oppurtunity for my husband .Now we have kids who have to start schooling soon .For this we want to shift to a metropolitan bcoz this small town does not have many schools hospitals etc. plus since both of us are from metro we want to shift again to a metro .
I am very much pro shifting back to gurgaon as it is our place and we have lot of friends & family back there .But my husband is keen on moving to Bangalore -he says he has good oppurtunities there plus good schools and weather and overall he finds it to be a good place the only problem. we do not have any family there .Going there means starting afresh .
I want opinions from people who have stayed in these place as to which is better for settling(we want to settle permanently in anyone of them).
Specially people who have stayed in both the places are better judge as to which is better for permanent settlement .Please give me sincere opions so that we can take a decision .
Recently i visited Bangalore also for this purpose but have no clue what is it living there .We are north Indians and have to keep that factor in mind also .that is why we totally ruled out Chennai .
thanks in advance CHERRY replied. Hi Sakhi,
I HAVE WORKED IN GURGAON AND HAVE SEEN THERE IS NOT MUCH HAPPENING OVER THERE FOR A FAMILY AND IF YOU WORRIED ABOUT CAREER THAN YOU HAVE TO SETTLE IN GURGAON,AND IF FAMILY IS PRIORITY THEN I SUGGEST BLORE AS WE HAVE MORE FAMILY AND CULTURE VALUES AND BLORE IS FOR BETTER THAN GURGAON FOR EG WEATHER AND COST OF LIVING IS LESS ,
AND COMING TO FAMILY AND FRIENDS WE HAVE LOT OF CLOSE TO 50% POPULATION FROM NORTHINDIA AND PEOPLE HERE ARE VERY FRIENDLY NOW YOU TAKE A CALL AS THE MESSAGE IS ALSO REPLIED FROM A PERSON FROM BLORE ONLY...