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i got married 3 months back. ours was love marriage..we know each other for last 3 years.my husband was in US few months before marriage. and after tht also he had to leave for 2 months.i fell so lonely and bad here without him. am missing him and going crazy. he misses me too.and because of this distance v keep arguing on this topic - distance. all because of me. as i keep asking him everyday(when he calls) to leave the project and come back. he patiently listens to me and feels bad that he is unable to do anything. there r sometimes wen he reacts as well like he too gets irritated with my questions. i want to stop torturing him like this otherwise it wil b bad for our married life. how can i learn to live life alone here for another month? are there people like this? please suggest to me..
mg replied. Dear N1, i know that u r missing yr hubby, but think about it like this, here u hv yr frnds, yr parents etc with u, but there yr hubby is all alone, besides if he leaves the job do u hv an alternate job 4 him, now its recession time, getting job is not easy, surely he must be coming on vacation, then u can start a family, a nice baby to keep u company when he is gone. Talk to him lovingly tell him how much you miss, BUT DONT CRIB. Keep assuring him that u love him... keep him busy with your lovely talks and email messages that he will miss u to such an extent that he may try and settle down back home. sonia replied. Hey N1.. u can seduce him by phone sex so he relises that ur missing him & he knows dear that u miss him as its quite obvious and ofcourse he also might me missing u .. so u dnt need to actually tell him this.. but talk to him being cool..talk abt his work.. then what is happening in his life there .. what different he finds things there .. tease him on females there but dnt crib that he is not there with u .. sonia replied. Hey N1 i think u shld really stop cribbing & irritate by asking such things to ur hubby this is the main reason for arguments instead if ur missing me that badly take things +vely and u shld seduce him over the phone or net whichever way u communicate & make him realise that ur missing him , u can also tell him that once ur here u ll give him lots of love which he is missing now , talk all romantic things with him by which he shld be happy to know that u love him a lot & tell him that his work is also priority .. think practically & not crib that rite now he is not here ... let me know if u need tips for this all