Hi Friends,
I am missing my mom so badly these days,i feel so miserable and terrible all the time as She is no more present in this world.Its such an helpless situation for me.I wish she was present with me at this moment of mine.Its been 3 yrs tht she left all of us.
We are planning to call my in-laws but again it all depends on their visa,please pray for their visa.
Take care,
Uma

Radhika replied. Hi Uma,
I can understand what u r going thru..I have lost both my dad last year and my mom now 9 yrs back, but still feels like it was y'day. Try to be positive, I still talk a lot to my Ma and Pa...and I know they are there when I told them first I was pregnant after I took the pregnancy test, during my ultrasound, I dream of my childhood days too..I can feel they are happy to be together too, they both were very dependent on each other and both were very active till the last month..wouldn't want them to suffer and live just for us..so try to be happy and imagine them happy, we have a constant guardian always, anywhere guarding us like angels above..I even joke with my parents and ask them to pass messages to God, if someone is really in pain and need help..If they see u sad when in such a happy phase of life, they wouldn't be happy either. Fortunately, we are lucky they were with us this long and left us when we were mature enough to take care of ourselves.
They are always with us, more so now than when they were physically alive, let them see u having fun,smiling and enjoying motherhood..after all thats what they strived for all their lives to keep us happy. I am sure they are listening to u all u have to do is talk to them..I now value all the people I ahve even more, happy to have a wonderful caring mother in law who has done everything for me like my mom would and has even taken care of my sister back home..We have been blessed with a lot..especially now with the best gift we will ever have..be cheerful and don't worry, ur mother in law will be here, trust God and ur parents who try to make things easier for u..
Keep smiling...for sake of ur child,husband and ur parents.
This forum has given us the best supporters during this time...too..so lot to thankful for.
take care.bye..
Radhika Sweta replied. Hi Uma

We all will pray that ur inlaws will get the visa. i know how u must be feeling right now but try to be happy coz our each and every mood swings will directly effect the baby

take care

Sweta Manisha replied. Hi Uma

I am so sorry for you. Hope your MIL will get the visa and will be there for you and i wish her to be so nice to take place of your mom.
I am sure your mom will be watching you and will be feeling very happy for you, so you also cheer up for your baby.
Manvi, I am so sorry for your husband's mom too. i hope she heard your good news as it was recent. she will also be happy up there for you.

Manisha sumana replied. uma,

hope your inlaws get their visas soon. Be cheerful and happy since it is good for the baby.
dont feel sad coz ur mom will always be watching over u.
take care,
sumana kalyani replied. Uma,
Please don't worry.Think that she is next to you watching what all you do.I too miss my mom who is in india(chennai).I cry daily as i miss her a lot.I can understnd how it will be for you.I pray that your inlaws will get visa and make you happy.Take care.Cheer up uma.Okay are you going to have a boy or girl?.

with love
kalyani manvi replied. Uma cheer up!i know nothing can replace having mom by you.My husband lost his mom[a wonderful person] recently ,all we can do is cherish the good times.
We r all here for you &your husband&in laws will rise to the occasion.Have faith,your mom would have wanted you to be happy&smiling thru' this phase.
Share your thoughts here at the board&lets look fwd to being atleast half the mother our moms are!!! Ritu replied. Dear Uma,
Your little one's happiness depends on you so you must remain happy all the time .
I will pray that your inlaws get visa soonest !!!
Take Care & Best wishes,
Ritu Nikki replied. Sorry to hear that Uma.I know it would be very hard to forget one's mom,but at this time u need to be happy rather than being sad as it will harm the baby.
My mom is in India ,and since 2 days I am missing her a lot.I think nowadays u feel to be more with her.
keep urself busy in some work.I can only give u advise though it would be very hard for u .

Hope ur in-Laws gets their visa and accompany u soon.

Take care,
Nikki Bargavi replied. Uma
Sorry to hear that. Hope ur inlaws are here soon and u will not feel lonely.
Bargavi