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Hi guys!

Me again! So, I need help fast...
so i been posting for a longgg time...and now is crunch time. The ' meeting' between the families will probably happen soon I think. I don' t know whether to make it happen now or later. I really don' t want to wait till after the baby is born. It' s already going to be almost a mth since I have spoken with my husband. And that was ok, because we needed time apart. But, the baby is due in two months.
I think the more this thing hangs in the air, at this point, the harder it will be. I already have VERYYY bad feelings about my husband. And I know I' m just going to get MORE distant from him, as well as he probably will from me.

I' m so confused!! I just feel like this has to be out in the open now, get these talked about, and see what happens.

I know some people may say wait until after the baby, BUT I don' t want a man that can' t be there for me while I' m pregnant. A man that talks about abortions, a man that has no responsibility to be a husband OR a father. I need someone that knows HOW to be a man. And one thing, please don' t tell me I have to show him love and affection and all that stuff that a good indian wife is supposed to do. Because if you guys have followed my story, I' ve done MORE then enough of that, and he' s just taken advantage of it.

pleasee......ideas?! How do I get my points and my case across to everyone. Keep in mind BOTH our families are going to be there....not just me and his family. My parents are already on my side, so I' m not worried about them siding against me.

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